Student Handout 1: Consumer Socialization and Birthday Parties
A study of birthday parties for children aged three to five revealed that the mothers used the situation
to (1) teach children how to plan a party, (2) indicate approval or disapproval of certain themes (e.g.,
Barbie, Ninja Turtles), (3) teach sharing and other positive values, and (4) instill social skills. The
following examples indicate the instrumental nature of the process.
Planning Skills
Theme Approval
• [Explaining why she would not let her son have a commercial theme at his party.] It is not so
much the money but the values I have about it …but I have to explain to Carl that we decided to do
it this way because we think birthdays are very special, but we celebrate them differently than
other people . . . that’s what we think is important that is the lesson we try to show.
Positive Values
• [I use] outdoor games . . . something where everybody wins. [In a treasure hunt] they all got in
like one big cohort, and they all helped each other ….It was really nice, they really liked it, and
everyone got a prize in the end.
excluded.
Social Skills
• I am petrified they are going to say something like, “Hey, I already have this.” My eight-year-old
would never do this because he knows I’ll take all his toys and give them to the Salvation Army if
I find out….With the four-year-old, I worry.