groups and either assign or ask groups to choose a store or set of stores to explore. The
assignment works best if each group chooses a different venue: department stores, malls,
boutiques, box stores, books stores, toy stores, sporting goods stores, grocery stories, card
stores, etc. Groups should spend approximately 30 minutes at their assigned store looking
for messages about gender. Ask students to take notes about the kinds of products
available for boys, girls, women, and men. If they visit a clothing store, tell them to attend
to the color, fabric, and construction of the clothes. For all stores, instruct students to pay
attention to product displays, store layout and decorations, posters, and packaging. Devote
a class period to discussing the groups’ findings. What messages about gender did the
various stores communicate and how? Were there similarities and differences between the
gendered messages communicated by the different stores? What might those similarities
and differences suggest about gender and age, race, and/or socioeconomic status?
2. Differences, Similarities, and Essentializing
For many of our students, much of the “research” read and heard about gender and sex comes
from pop psychology, and many come into the course expecting to learn about how men and
women communicate as if they are from different planets. Provide the students with a brief
excerpt from John Gray’s book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. Chapter 1 of the
book works nicely for this exercise, and the book is usually available at most college libraries.
(Take care to abide by education fair use regulations for copyrighted work. Using only Chapter
1 stays within these guidelines.) Lead a discussion around the following questions:
• What of Gray’s claims do you agree with?
• What do you disagree with?
• Do you think Gray’s descriptions of men and women are consistent with you and those
close to you?
• Who do you know who challenges these notions?
• Are there any ways in which thinking about men and women in these ways can be
problematic?
The concept of essentializing (i.e., assuming all members of a group are the same) should
underlie this discussion, and if it is not raised by a student, you should introduce it during the
discussion. After examining the discussion questions, students should have an idea of how
essentializing is seen as useful (it helps us organize the world neatly) but also very narrowing
and confining.
3. Exploring Trans Identity
Show the film Ma Vie En Rose (My Life in Pink) about a boy who hopes and thinks he will
grow up to be a girl. The film shows the struggle for him, his family, and his community as
he explores his gender and sexual identity. (The film is rated R, but there is no sex or
violence enacted in the film.) Alternatively, the film Middle Sexes: Redefining He and She,
explores similar issues and includes commentary on gender in many different cultures.
Discuss students’ responses to the film, imagining what it would have been like to be the boy
in the film, his parents, or his neighbor.