Repeat this exercise three times so all students have a chance to be Person 1, 2, and 3.
After the exercise is over, debrief the class. Ask the following questions:
1. Was it harder to use the skills presented than you thought it would be?
2.If you were not expecting a tirade would it be hard or easy to recall and practice these
skills?
3. Did you attempt to problem solve before the individual had finished venting? If so, did
that make the other individual more or less angry?
Scenarios:
Person 1 is dining and Person 2 is wait staff. Person 1, your meal is slow arriving and
your steak is running blood. You like your steak well done. This is an expensive
restaurant.
Person 1 owes $4,000 in property tax which needs to be paid today. Person 1 thinks the tax
is outrageous. Also, Person 1 has recently lost his/her job and is struggling. Person 2
works at the counter collecting the taxes.
Person 1 has a child in elementary school who has been accused of cheating on a test.
Person 1 does not believe this is true and is furious. Person 2 is the teacher who sent home
the note about the child cheating.
Answers to In the News
Answers to Ask Yourself
8.4 Managing Conflict in Groups
Supplementary Exercise 8.4 (Facilitation)
Ask for 6 volunteers from the class. Give them the following scenario, using Teaching Master
8.2. Ask one individual to volunteer to be the facilitator. Give 3 other students the instructions
on p.2 of the Teaching Master.
Pass out the Meeting Agenda to both participants and students. Explain to the group that the
supervisor, Julio, has been unexpectedly called to a meeting and one of the team members has
agreed to facilitate the meeting. The meeting must last no more than 15 minutes because the
group needs to complete a big project by 5 p.m. that afternoon. Turn the meeting over to the
facilitator.
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