An Ethical Choice
Choosing to Lie
This exercise contributes to:
Learning Objective: Contrast the three ethical decision criteria
Learning Outcome: Apply the study of perception and attribution to the workplace
AACSB: Ethical understanding and reasoning; Reflective thinking
Mark Twain wrote, “The wise thing is for us diligently to train ourselves to lie
thoughtfully.” Not everyone agrees that lying is wrong. But we probably agree that
people do lie, including each of us, to varying degrees. And most of us probably agree
that if we lied less, organizations and society would be better off. So how might that be
done? Research conducted by behavioral scientists suggests some steps to recovery.
1. Stop lying to ourselves. We lie to ourselves about how much we lie. Specifically, many
studies reveal that we deem ourselves much less likely to lie than we judge others to
be. At a collective level, this is impossible—everyone can’t be below above average in
their propensity to lie. So Step 1 is to admit the truth: We underestimate the degree to
which we lie, we overestimate our morality compared to others, and we tend to engage
in what Bazerman and Tenbrunsel call “moral hypocrisy”—we think we’re more moral
than we are.
2. Trust, but verify. A recent study showed that lying is learned at a very young age.
When a toy was placed out of view, an experimenter told young children not to look at
the toy, and went out of sight. More than 80 percent of the children looked at the toy.
When asked whether they had looked, 25 percent of 2½ year-olds lied, compared to 90
percent of four-year-olds. Why do we learn to lie? Because we often get away with it.
Negotiation research shows that we are more likely to lie in the future when our lies
have succeeded or gone undetected in the past. Managers need to identify areas where
lying is costly and find ways to shine a light on it when it occurs.
3. Reward honesty. “The most difficult thing is to recognize that sometimes we too are
blinded by our own incentives,” writes Dan Ariely, “because we don’t see how our
conflicts of interest work on us.” So if we want more honesty, we have to provide
greater incentives for the truth, and more disincentives for lying and cheating.
Sources: Based on D. Ariely, The Honest Truth About Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone—and Especially Ourselves. (New York:
Harper, (2012); K. Canavan, “Even Nice People Cheat Sometimes,” The Wall Street Journal (August 8, 2012), p. 4B; M. H. Bazerman
and Ann E. Tenbrunsel, Blind Spots: Why We Fail to Do What’s Right and What to Do about It (2012) Princeton, NJ: Princeton
University Press, 2012; A. D. Evans and K. Lee, “Emergence of Lying in Very Young Children,” Developmental Psychology (2013);
and L. Zhou Y. Sung, and D. Zhang, “Deception Performance in Online Group Negotiation and Decision Making: The Effects of
Deception Experience and Deception Skill,” Group Decision and Negotiation 22 (2013), pp. 153–-172.
Class Exercise
1. Divide the class into three groups.
2. Ask each group to list situations in which they feel lying is acceptable.
3. Then, ask students whether they would lie to protect a friend, to save their job,
or to move ahead in their job.