e. One study found that anxious negotiators expect lower outcomes from
negotiations, respond to offers more quickly, and exit the bargaining process more
quickly, which leads them to obtain worse outcomes.
f. All these findings regarding emotions have related to distributive bargains. In
integrative negotiations, in contrast, positive moods and emotions appear to lead
to more integrative agreements (higher levels of joint gain).
3. Culture in negotiations
a. Do people from different cultures negotiate differently? The simple answer is the
obvious one: yes, they do.
b. First, it appears that people generally negotiate more effectively within cultures
than between them.
i. For example, a Colombian is apt to do better negotiating with a Colombian
than with a Sri Lankan.
c. Second, it appears that in cross-cultural negotiations, it is especially important
that the negotiators be high in openness.
d. Finally, because emotions are culturally sensitive, negotiators need to be
especially aware of the emotional dynamics in cross-cultural negotiation.
4. Gender differences in negotiations
a. Men and women negotiate differently and these differences affect outcomes.
b. A popular stereotype is that women are more cooperative, pleasant, and
relationship-oriented in negotiations than men. There is some merit to this.
c. Men tend to place a higher value on status, power, and recognition, whereas
women tend to place a higher value on compassion and altruism.
d. Moreover, women do tend to value relationship outcomes more than men, and
men tend to value economic outcomes more than women.
e. These differences affect both negotiation behavior and negotiation outcomes.
i. Compared to men, women tend to behave in a less assertive, less
self-interested, and more accommodating manner.
ii. However, the disparity goes even further than that. Because of the way
women approach negotiation, other negotiators seek to exploit female
negotiators by, for example, making lower salary offers.
f. So what can be done to change this troublesome state of affairs?
i. First, organizational culture plays a role here.
ii. If an organization, even unwittingly, encourages a predominantly competitive
model for negotiators, this will tend to increase gender-stereotypic behaviors
(men negotiating competitively, women negotiating cooperatively), and it will
also increase backlash when women go against stereotype.
iii. Second, at an individual level, women cannot directly control male
stereotypes of women. Fortunately, such stereotypes are fading. However,
women can control their own negotiating behavior.
V. Negotiating in a Social Context
A. Introduction
1. To really understand negotiations in practice, we must then consider the social factors
of reputation and relationships.
B. Reputation
1. Your reputation is the way other people think and talk about you.