Beebe/Beebe/Ivy Communication: Principles for a Lifetime 6e
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Romantic Relationship Status
Siblings, pets, children, monsters
Identify students who already know someone in class and tell them that they
cannot partner with the person they know. Allow students to partner together in
dyads and tell them they have five minutes to learn everything they can about each
other. Also, tell them to put away pens, paper, and tape recorders. Time the
interaction and at the end of five minutes, tell the “couples” to join another couple
so that the dyads become quartets. Tell students they have five minutes to
complete the exercise again. At the end of the time, check to see if the students
know each other and then instruct them to stay with their group, but join another
foursome so that quartets become octets. Give students another five minutes to
learn all they can about each other. Ideally, you want to get two or three distinct
groups and listen in periodically, paying attention to associating names with faces.
After the final rotation, get the class into a large circle and ask, “Does everyone
remember the first person you talked to? We will move to my left and as we come
to the person you talked to, you need to introduce them to us.” Introductions will
Activity 1.2: Why don’t I believe you?
This activity will take between 20 minutes and the entire class period. Have
students write three things about themselves, such as their favorite hobby, major,
future career aspirations, on a sheet of paper. Of the three, tell students to make
one a lie. Have students memorize their list and dispose of the sheet of paper.
the lie. The point to be made is impression management and nonverbal leakage,
not promoting lying.
Activity 1.3: I am like…
The following may be used for a graded activity and will take the entire class
period. Tell students that they will need to introduce themselves to the class, but
rather than the standard name, major, and classification, students will have to
incorporate four metaphors that best describe their personalities. They must
choose one metaphor from each of the following—animal, vegetable, mineral, and