Briefly explain the influences that affect the way conflict is managed in a relationship.
Consider the following scenario: Stephanie and Derek have been dating for a couple of
years. Stephanie wants to marry Derek, but he is unsure. Derek’s parents were divorced
when he was young, and both his mother and father have remarried and divorced again.
Derek says he loves Stephanie but that he doesn’t “believe in marriage.” Stephanie isn’t
sure if she is willing to commit to a relationship with Derek if he isn’t willing to
consider marriage.
Briefly contrast the ways this conflict might end if the couple uses each of the following
conflict management styles: avoiding, obliging, direct fighting, indirect fighting,
compromising, and collaborating