Chapter 1 The Nature of Conflict
Hocker: Interpersonal Conflict, 10e TB-1 | 4
10. Adam was taking a public speaking class and was angry with his instructor. All of his friends
were getting good grades except him, but they all told him that he made the best
presentations. The instructor’s evaluations of his presentations all stated that his presentations
were amusing. Adam asked his instructor why all his classmates, most of whom happen to be
females, were getting better grades than he was. Adam thought he was learning to be a better
speaker and that the instructor was biased toward females, being one herself. However,
Adam did not realize that there were other males as well in the class who were getting good
grades. This conflict escalated because of:
a. incompatible goals.
b. scarce resources.
c. the perception of interference.
d. an expressed struggle.
e. None of the answers is correct.
Short-Answer/Essay Questions
1. Describe a time when you experienced a conflict that was in some way beneficial. Which of
the benefits discussed in the text did you experience? If it was beneficial in some other
way, describe how.
2. Provide an overview of the nature of spirals that occur in ongoing conflicts. Discuss how a
spiral can be altered. Be sure to use a specific example to make your point.
3. What are the five features that contribute to destructive conflicts?
4. How can you express the struggle in a conflict without doing so verbally? Give a specific
example of a conflict that is expressed without words.
5. Why do we need to study conflict? What role does prevention play? Is prevention the same as
avoidance? Explain.
6. Discuss three ways in which negative parental conflict affects children in their family of
origin.
7. Research suggests that it is not primarily a question of whether parents divorce or not that
affects the children; rather, it is the level of conflict present in either the intact family or
the restructured family that impacts the children. Do you agree or disagree? Explain.