Chapter Seven
Communicating Interculturally: Becoming Competent
Overview
Spitzberg, B. “A Model of Intercultural Communication Competence” (pp. 343-355).
Ting-Toomey, S. “Managing Intercultural Conflicts Effectively” (pp. 355-367):
Collier, M. “Understanding Cultural Identities in Intercultural Communication: A TenStep Inventory”
(pp. 367-384).
The author of this essay describes ten steps that can be used to guide a study of intercultural
communication. The steps involve questions that the researcher needs to ask him/herself during
Kim, Y. “Adapting to a New Culture” (pp. 385-397).
How people adapt to a new culture and communication system is the focus of this essay. The
roles of stress and communication in the acculturation process are discussed, as well as an
account of how both external (environmental) and internal factors affect cross-cultural adaptation.
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Outline
I. A MODEL OF INTERCULTURAL COMMUNICATION COMPETENCE (Spitzberg)
a. Introduction
i. Intercultural communication competence: An impression that behavior is appropriate and
effective in a given context (p. 343)
2. Effectiveness: The accomplishment of valued goals or rewards relative to costs
and alternatives (p. 343)
b. A model of intercultural competence
i. An integrative model should include three levels of analysis
1. The individual system: Individual characteristics that that facilitate competent
interactions
3. The relational system: Components that help a person’s competence across an
entire relationship rather than just single episodes of interaction
c. Individual system
i. As communicator motivation increases, communicative competence increases
1. As communicator confidence increases, communicator motivation increases
3. As communicator approach dispositions increase, communicator motivations
increase
4. As the relative cost-benefit ratio of a situation increases, communicator
motivation increases
ii. As communicative knowledge increases, communicative competence increases
2. As mastery of knowledge acquisition strategies increase, communicator
knowledge increases
4. As knowledge dispositions increase, communication knowledge increases
iii. As communicator skills increase, communicator competence increases
2. As conversational coordination increases, communicator skill increases
4. As conversational expressiveness increases, communicator skill increases
5. As conversational adaptation increases, communicator skill increases
d. Episodic system
i. As actor’s communicative status increases, coactor’s impression of actor’s competence
increases
2. As contextual obstruction of actor’s performance increases, coactor’s
impression of actors competence increases
4. As actor’s extant attributed communicative status increases, coactor’s
impression of actor status increases
ii. Coactor’s impression of actor’s competence is a function of actor’s fulfillment of co-
actor’s expectancies
1. As actor’s fulfillment of positive co-actor expectancies increases, co-actor’s
impression of actor’s competence increases
3. As actor’s fulfillment of coactor’s competence prototype expectancies
increases, co-actor’s impression of actor’s competence increases
5. As actor’s normative compensation of power relations increases, the more co
actor’s impression of actor’s competence increases
e. Relational system
i. As mutual fulfillment of autonomy and intimacy needs increases, relational competence
increases
f. Conclusions
II. MANAGING INTERCULTURAL CONFLICTS EFFECTIVELY (Ting-Toomey)
a. A cultural variability perspective
i. Individualism-collectivism tendencies
1. The individualistic independent construal of self and the collectivist
1. “…low-context communication refers to communication patterns of a linear
2. “High-context communication refers to communication patterns of a spiral
1. M-time: Monochronic time schedule
2. P-time: Polychronic time schedule
b. Violations of conflict expectations
i. Cultural conflict assumptions
2. For collectivistic, HC communicators, conflict follows a “face maintenance”
model
ii. Conflict issues and process violations
1. Collectivists prefer to use a conflict mediator who is older and related to both
2. Power in individualist cultures usually means tangible resources of rewards
3. Individualistic, M-time people think conflict resolution processes should
follow a clear agenda; for collectivist, P-time people, conflict resolution has
no clear beginning or end
iii. Cross-cultural conflict interaction styles
1. Individualistic, LC cultures prefer direct conflict style, use of the equity
norm, and direct settlement of disputes
2. Collectivistic, HC cultures prefer indirect conflict style, use of the equality
c. Effective conflict management
i. Suggestions for individualists
2. Be proactive about minor conflicts before they become major
4. Be sensitive to the importance of mindful observation
6. Don’t rely on the Western model of effective communication
7. Don’t force others to deal directly with conflicts
ii. Suggestions for collectivists
1. Be mindful of problem-solving assumptions
3. Be assertive
5. Be an active listener
7. Commit to working out the conflict situation with the conflict party
III. UNDERSTANDING CULTURAL IDENTITIES IN INTERCULTURAL COMMUNICATION: A
TEN-STEP INVENTORY (Collier)
a. Request to engage the dialogue
b. A ten-step inventory
i. The steps in this process of understanding and critically evaluating diverse
intercultural situations are a series of related but not necessarily sequential questions
c. Step 1: What do I believe about communication and culture?
i. Approaches to culture
1. Culture as place
3. Culture as art and artifact
5. Culture as product
7. Culture as psychology, worldview, or style of thinking and speaking
9. Culture as group identity
ii. Culture and the campus problem
1. The debate over the necessity of campus cultural centers and programs
d. Step 2: What intercultural communication question do I want to answer?
i. Narrow your interests to a question you can answer through your analysis of
communication
e. Step 3: What cultural identity issues are relevant?
i. Multiple cultural identity types (CITs)
2. Sex and gender
4. Geographic area
6. Physical ability and disability
ii. Cultural identification as constituted in communication
1. Cultural identities are negotiated, reinforced, and challenged through
communication
iii. Multivocality and interpellated cultural identities
1. Each person has multiple identities and voices and belongs to multiple
cultures
iv. Avowal and ascription processes
2. Ascription: The cultural identities that are attributed to people by others
v. Salience and intensity differences
1. Different aspects of our cultural identities are more salient or intense in
different contexts
vi. Enduring and changing property of identity
1. Cultural identities both endure and change over time
f. Step 4: What is the role of power and ideology?
g. Step 5: What are the intergroup and interpersonal relationship processes?
h. Step 6: What kinds of communicative messages should I examine in my study?
i. Form and function of discourse texts
ii. Message patterns and themes
iii. Modes of expression: Labels and norms
iv. Affective, cognitive, and spiritual components
i. Step 7: What is the context of the intercultural problem?
j. Step 8: What perspectives and procedures should I use to study the data?
i. Epistemological perspectives
ii. Positivist and objectivist perspectives
iv. Interpretive and reconstructive perspectives
v. Researcher perspective
2. Relational point of view
3. Communal point of view
k. Step 9: What are my preliminary and alternative interpretations and conclusions?
l. Step 10: How can I apply my interpretations?
m. Conclusions
IV. ADAPTING TO A NEW CULTURE (Kim)
a. Stress, adaptation, and growth
i. Acculturation: Learning new ways of thinking, feeling, and acting (p. 385)
b. The role of communication
i. Personal communication
1. Host communication competence: The overall internal capacity of a stranger
2. Cognitive competence: Knowledge of the host language and culture,
3. Affective competence: Provides the emotional and aesthetic sensibilities that
4. Operational competence: Strangers’ capacity to express their cognitive and
affective experiences outwardly when communicating with others (p. 388)
ii. Social communication
2. Mass communication: Public media
c. The role of the environment
i. Host receptivity
1. The degree to which the environment welcomes strangers
ii. Host conformity pressure
1. The extent to which natives exert pressure on strangers to conform
iii. Ethnic group strength
d. The role of predisposition
i. Preparedness
1. Readiness for dealing with the new environment
ii. Ethnicity
iii. Personality
1. Openness
3. Positivity
e. Summary and integration
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Discussion Ideas
Concepts & Questions from “A Model of Intercultural Communication Competence” (Spitzberg, pp. 343-
355):
1. What does Spitzberg mean when he says intercultural competence must be viewed as the social
evaluation of behavior?
2. What are the individual, episodic, and relational systems of analysis?
3. What is the relationship between communicator motivation and intercultural communication
competence?
4. What is communicator approach disposition? How is it related to intercultural communication
competence?
5. What is task-relevant procedural knowledge, and how does it relate to communication competence?
6. What are valued outcomes, and how do they affect the entire communication encounter?
Concepts & Questions from “Managing Intercultural Conflicts Effectively” (Ting-Toomey, pp. 355-367):
1. How does Ting-Toomey define conflict?
2. In what way does the cultural socialization process relate to different forms of intercultural
conflicts?
3. From the perspective of intercultural conflict, how may in-group and out-group differences
contribute to such conflict?
4. How can differences between high- and low-context cultures contribute to intercultural conflict?
5. How can an awareness of expectations help mediate intercultural conflict?
6. How do differences along the individualisticcollectivist scale of cultural differences contribute to
intercultural conflict? What would you suggest to minimize these influences?
Concepts & Questions from “Understanding Cultural Identities in Intercultural Communication: A Ten
Step Inventory” (Collier, pp. 367-384):
1. What is the central purpose of the “series of steps” presented by Collier?
2. Which one of Collier’s “approaches to culture” do you believe most directly relates to intercultural
communication?
3. How would you answer the following question: What do I want to know about the communicative
event, contact, discourse, text, and situation?
4. What does Collier mean by the phrase “multiple types of cultural identities”?
5. Why is power an important variable in intercultural communication?
Concepts & Questions from “Adapting to a New Culture” (Kim, pp. 385-397):
1. What does Kim mean when, speaking of new immigrants and refugees, she states that they are like
“pioneers”?
2. What are some “defense mechanisms” immigrants and refugees employ as a way of coping?
3. How would you explain the idea that stress is part of the adaptation process?
4. Why do some “individual strangers” adapt faster than others?
5. What does Kim mean when she writes of “cognitive complexity”?
8. What happens when “strangers” arrive with unrealistic expectations regarding the host culture?
9. Does Kim believe that “strangers” can accomplish their adaptation process alone? If not, why not?
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Exercises
Exercise 7.1: Improving Ourselves
This activity focuses on the communicative behavior of students and, specifically, those aspects of their
behavior that they would like to change. This activity uses the concepts in Chapter 7 as a backdrop
1. Describe the communicative behavior that you would like to change.
2. Give one example when you communicated in this way. Include the other interactant’s response
to your behavior.
3. What strategy can you think of that will remedy this behavior?
When students come to the following class period, ask them to break into small groups. Each group
member should share what he or she has written, ask the group for feedback about the strategy developed,
and solicit other possible strategies. Each student should walk away from his or her group with a list of
strategies. Regroup as a class and have students share some of their areas for change. The instructor
Engage the class in a discussion on how their specific communication problems might affect their ability
to be competent intercultural communicators. How might their behavior be perceived by individuals from
other cultures? How would working on this one communicative behavior enhance their effectiveness as
intercultural communicators? The discussion should begin to address the issue of becoming
Exercise 7.2: Developing Intercultural Relationships
At times the unfamiliar can excite us. If we knew everything about the people we formed relationships
with, there would be no surprises, nothing to uncover and explore. But too much unfamiliarity can be
unsettling. We like to have something we can be certain of in our relationships. At least in the initial
This exercise focuses on how we develop intercultural relationships and the attributes necessary for the
development of such relationships. It asks students to consider their own network of friends and the extent
Questions to Answer Individually
1. How many relationships (romantic partners and people you consider to be friends) with culturally
different people do you have? [Remember to consider relationships with people from different
2. Describe an intercultural relationship that you have with someone that you find to be very
satisfying. What makes it so satisfying?
Questions to Answer in Small Groups
4. List five reasons why people are hesitant to develop relationships (platonic or romantic) with
people from other cultures.
5. Which one of the above reasons pertains (if at all) most directly to you? Please explain your
6. Many intercultural communication specialists mention open-mindedness as one attribute
necessary for the development of successful intercultural relationships. What are some other
attributes or ways of thinking that a person should have in order to develop relationships with
culturally different people?
7. Which of the above do you feel you might need to develop further? Why did you choose these
attributes to work on?
Exercise 7.3: Individualism, Collectivism, Reward Distribution, and Conflict
This activity can be used to focus on managing intercultural conflicts effectively. One area that may result
in intercultural conflict is the area of reward distribution particularly when both collectivistic and
individualist cultures are involved. Ting-Toomey notes:
The following exercise was developed by R. W. Brislin (1994) and can be found in Improving
Intercultural Interactions: Modules for Cross-cultural Training. Consult this excellent reference book for
other appropriate exercises. Divide the students into two groups (one group will represent collectivists
and the other will represent individualists) and have the students read the case study below. After reading
the case study, have each group draft a distribution of money based on either their collectivist or
individualist tendencies. Then have the groups role-play a negotiation to resolve their distribution
differences utilizing conflict management strategies.
For discussion, Brislin (1994) provides the following explanation to accompany the exercise (handout
next page):
Individualists generally prefer an equity distribution, that is, rewards based on contributions. If
Person A contributed 40% of the work, he should receive approximately 40% of the rewards.
Other people should also receive rewards based on their contributions. Person E is not likely to
get much special attention from individualists in monetary terms. Instead, the team might name
Rewards Case Study (Brislin, 1994, pp. 80-81)
Assume that you are employed in a company (for profit) that contracts to do construction work (e.g.,
roads, sewage treatment facilities) in rural areas of the community where you live. The company recently
received a contract for $800,000 (U.S.) to build a road. Given a number of fortunate circumstances, such
as good weather, the project was completed for $700,000. It is now the end of the fiscal year and the
board of directors has decided that the extra $100,000 can be distributed the way people (who were
involved in the road construction project) decide. The following people are somehow involved. All have
been in the company for at least five years and get along well together
Person A was the hardest worker and was clearly responsible for supervising a great deal of the actual
day-to-day work on the project. At least 40% of the day-to-day work on the project was done by him.
Persons B, C, and D were solid but not spectacular contributors. They were competent workers but not
outstanding. Each contributed about 15% of the actual day-to-day work on the project.
Person E is a very high status and wealthy person in the organization and in the community. Although he
did not engage in any of day-to-day work on the road construction project and did not write the proposal
for funding, it is known within the organization that he called upon his connections and used his influence
Amount Explanation (Why?)
Person A ________ ________________________________________________
Person B ________ ________________________________________________
Person C ________ ________________________________________________
Person D ________ ________________________________________________
Person E ________ ________________________________________________
Person F ________ ________________________________________________
Exercise 7.4: Acculturation
This activity is related to sojourner adaptation and will allow students to experience vicariously the
1. What things have you done to help deal with the high level of uncertainty and anxiety in moving
to a new culture?
2. What cross-cultural challenges have you faced since moving to the United States?
3. Do you feel that your adaptation has been slow?
4. What do you miss most about your original culture?
5. Do you participate in a variety of social functions in the United States?
6. Are you in close contact with members of your own ethnicity here in the United States? How
large is this group?
7. Do you maintain ties with your original culture? How often?
8. Do you feel the U.S. culture has been receptive and welcoming?
Exercise 7.5: Intercultural Talk Journals
In order to understand how people from other cultures communicate interpersonally, it is useful to
actually engage in conversations with them. But talking is only the first step. Having students actively
reflecting on their experiences with culturally different people can help them make sense of what
happened, allow them to assess what they have learned, and make changes in their communication. This
activity is designed to give students more intercultural experiences and familiarity with other cultures.
Ask students to start a “talk” journal during the first weeks of the term. In this journal, they should
describe the interactions they have with people from different cultures and record some of their
perceptions and feelings experienced during these encounters. Students should be reminded that although
people may share their ethnic background, they may also be members of other cultures. Women, gays and
Suggested Topics for Talk Journal Entries
2. Where did you encounter people from different cultures?
3. Descriptions of the encounters.
4. How do the people you spoke with communicate? What is important in their lives?
5. How is their culture manifested in their behavior or communication?
6. Were your interpersonal contacts marked by any misunderstandings due to cultural differences?
9. How would you do things differently next time you talked with this person or another person
from the same cultural background?
Post-Talk Journal Questions
1. What did you learn about how people from other cultures communicate and interact
interpersonally?
2. What did you learn about yourself as an interpersonal communicator during intercultural
interactions? What kinds of feelings arose for you as you talked with these people?
Exercise 7.6: Metamessages and Intercultural Communication
Unless we tape record our conversations, it is almost impossible to hear how others hear us. We probably
have more knowledge about the content of our speech than about our ways of speaking. It is possible to
offend another person by the tone, volume, or even rate of our speechand be oblivious to what we are
communicating. While we traditionally think of conflicts between people as disagreements over ideology
and perspective, conflicts can just as easily arise over how ideas are communicated. Such conflicts are
based on the metamessages—messages about one’s own communication—people send when they use a
Case Study
Carmina works in an office with five other people. Ever since her supervisor hired her, Carmina
has noticed that she talks much more slowly to her than to the native English speakers in the
office. Carmina’s first language is Spanish and she speaks flawless, accented English. Yet her
supervisor still speaks to her using simple language at a markedly slow rate. No other person in
the subject. After all, she is new to the office and doesn’t want to cause any problems—especially
between her supervisor and herself.
Questions for Students to Consider
1. Write down some reasons why the supervisor was using “special” English with Carmina. What
was she thinking? What might have been her intentions?
experiencing? Have you ever communicated with a nonnative speaker the way Carmina’s
supervisor did with her? Describe what happened in either situation.
6. Describe a situation when someone sent metamessages that you found condescending or
disrespectful. What happened and how did you handle the situation?
7. How can we let someone know that we find the way they are speaking to us offensive? Write
down a few strategies.
Stewart, J., & D’Angelo, G. (1988). Together: Communication interpersonally. (3rd ed.). New
York: Random House.
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