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Leading with Emotional Intelligence: Change, Then and Now
In organizations, families, and life, change is inevitable and constant. The way we handle
change—by adjusting to it, resisting it, or embracing it—depends in part on our degree of
emotional intelligence. Organizations change to remain relevant, productive, and profitable. The
same can be said about you—you change to remain relevant, productive, and profitable—and your
education should be a transformative experience that guides you in this direction. Review the
Gestalt cycle of experience. Now, think back on yourself when you were in high school. Consider
the ways you have changed in that relatively short span of time.
1. Make a brief list of the type of person you were back then—shy, outgoing, humble, geeky, etc.
Be honest with yourself. How have you changed in terms of self-awareness and managing your
emotions? How do you handle relationships differently now?
excited, afraid, or confused? Compare your feelings with where you are now relative to where you
were before, during, and after the change. Are you more mature? Are you a better person for the
change?
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Leading with Critical Thinking Skills: Eight Stages for Participation
Change in organizations can be slow, time-consuming, and sometimes counter-productive. Unless
it is done right, organizational change can be a nightmare for the management team and
employees. Practical models can help organizations make smooth transitions from old to new. John
Kotter’s Eight–Stage Change Model, for instance, is useful in focusing the energy of the
organizational change process on desired goals and objectives.