Instructor Resource
Rowe, Cases in Leadership 5e
SAGE Publications, Inc., 2019
warning signs presented a moment to Copley in which she could have had the difficult
conversation that would have allowed her to manage this conflict more successfully.
Having explored the differences between the two women, the troubles resulting from these
differences, and the very real need to address these troubles (albeit through a difficult
conversation) before they led to the damaging argument at the case’s end, the instructor should
introduce the “how to’s” of conflict management. In other words, the first part of the class
establishes the need for these two women to know how to handle their conflict—the need for
every leader to know how to handle conflict and face up to difficult conversations—while the
second part of the class examines how to manage conflict and the inevitable challenging
conversations that come along with it.
Different conflict management tools and various approaches to difficult conversations
could be used as templates at this point. This instructor has used the Harvard Negotiation
Project’s conflict management tools quite usefully with this case. It proves simple to administer
in a single class. The three tools are: (1) “Putting Yourself in the Other’s Shoes,” (2) “Pursuing
Shared Interests Rather than Positions,” and (3) Examining the Other’s Currently Perceived
Choice.