Chapter 13 – Communication and Information Technology Management
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Even the position of a person’s eyebrows when he or she speaks or looks at another can reveal
something about that person’s mood or feelings. If you say a perfectly innocuous sentence to
someone but you say it without any sign of a smile on your face and with your brows lowered,
you will convey a hostile impression. Stares accompanied by lowered brows show anger,
aggression, or assertiveness, while raised brows show fear, surprise, questioning, or retreat.
Body language is also important in the business world. When a respected executive talks to a
subordinate, the lower-ranking person will listen intently with his eyes riveted on the executive’s
face. To look around would be a sign of disrespect. On the other hand, when the subordinate is
speaking, it is considered perfectly appropriate if the boss looks about or glances at his or her
watch.
And, of course, the high-status person directs the topics of conversation and how long the talk
will last. It’s the same with office visits. The higher-ranking person can exert his or her status by
simply dropping into a subordinate’s office without notice. The subordinate, of course, calls for
an appointment.
Lecture Enhancer 13.2
E-MAIL ETIQUETTE
Many of us are awash in e-mail. There’s no question that e-mail helps us to be more efficient but
misuse can hurt. Some compare e-mail to the Interstate highway system: it works well because
motorists observe common rules and courtesies, such as staying out of the left lane when not
passing, that allow for faster, more efficient travel. Those common rules and courtesies for e-
mail are evolving slowly.
Good e-mail starts with a useful subject line and a short message. The subject line should make
sense to both the sender and the recipient. For instance, a subject line “Meeting” may make
perfect sense to the sender, but the recipient may go to half a dozen meetings a day—which
meeting does it refer to?