Table 3.3 Differences in the Approach to Common Communication Issues
Communication
Dimension American (Individualistic) Japanese (Collectivistic)
General approach Blunt, to the point, explicit, direct; not
great at picking up “clues” from others;
more self-focused
Subtle, point is made deftly, implicit,
indirect references; much better at
monitoring others and oneself in
relation to others
Embarrassment More likely to involve out-group
members (acquaintances, friends of
friends, strangers); temporary
awkwardness
Involves in-group interactions (with
family, friends, coworkers); more
likely to feel longer-lasting shame
Apology/regret Apologies done directly but not as
intense as Japanese, and with
justifications and explanations offered
for behavior
Apologies also done directly and
extensively, without offering
explanations and reasons for
actions