Table 3.8 Some Elements of the Stereotypic American Negotiating Style
American Style Prescriptions for Use in Other Countries
1. Just call me John: Americans downplay status and
titles as well as other formalities such as lengthy
introductions.
1. Follow local customs: U.S. informality is out of place
in most other cultures; foreign clients are more
comfortable when Americans follow their customs.
way.
4. Don’t just sit there, speak up: Americans don’t deal
well with silence: they get into trouble by feeling
pressured to fill in silence with possible concessions.
4. Silence can be a powerful negotiating tool: Consider
its use, but also be aware of its use against you.
5. Don’t take “no” for an answer: Americans are taught
to be persistent and not to give up; negotiation is mostly
persuasion.
5. Minds are often changed behind the scenes: If an
impasse is reached, ask more questions; take a recess;
try a more subtle approach.
Americans are used to.