of what it is like to work with an alcohol use disorder? Why or why not?
2. Would you have handled things differently? At what points? What would you have specifically
said differently? Do you think that this scenario would have worked? Why or why not?
Break-Out Discussion #2:
Confrontation: Harsh confrontation is generally counterproductive at best, and harmful at its
worst. Imagine if you were in a relapse-prevention group in which six or eight clients are seated
in a circle. One member admits that he relapsed back to drinking over the past weekend, but
that he was able to limit the relapse to just one day.
Client # 1: Well, I only used alcohol on Sunday.
Client # 2: Did you try to avoid the relapse by calling somebody?
Client # 1: Well, no. It was Sunday and I did not want to disturb anybody on the weekend.
Client # 3: Well, you could have called me. I could have helped you find something to do
besides drinking. Did you drink while watching the football game?
Client # 1: Yes. It was a terrible game! Did you see that interception that cost us the game?
Counselor: While it was a difficult game, the issue here is your relapse over the weekend.
Were you drinking before or after the game?
Client # 1: Well, before the game I was just drinking soda, but . . .
Client # 2: Where were you during the game?
Client # 1: I was over at (names a friend), with a couple of the guys from work.
Client # 2: Were they drinking [alcohol]?
Client # 1: Well, yes, but I was only drinking soda at first. Then (names a friend) put one in
my hand, and I couldn’t say ‘no’ and after that I thought that since I already had
one, that I might as well keep going . . . Then the game ended with the interception,
and everyone felt bad and they kept drinking, so I drank with them.
Client # 3: Well that was pretty stupid! Why were you around people who were drinking?
That was a dumb thing to do . . .
(Turns to client # 1): I am impressed by the fact that you were able to stop drinking after
that one day! That says a lot about your motivation and strength. Further, some of
the mistakes sound that you might have made sound as if they were things we all
have done at some point in our lives. It would be helpful for all of us to look at these
mistakes to be forewarned if we should encounter that, or a similar situation in the
future. Can we use the events of this past weekend to help us understand the
dangers and possible mistakes that were made? Do you feel comfortable doing
that?