Miller always appeared to be operating in a “tell” mode that represents high content control and
low audience involvement. Since Miller was new to Smith, he was starting as an “outsider” and
needed to gain support and respect from his colleagues. In this scenario you should almost never
be “telling” people what is wrong, why it is wrong, and how you intend to “fix” it. By using the
“tell” communications approach, Miller further alienated himself from the team and turned every
situation into a “me vs. them” situation rather than a cooperative team problem solving exercise.
Miller would have fared better by first joining the group in analysis of the situation, then moving
into a consulting approach, and finally selling his proposal to the team. This approach would
STYLE AND TONE
Miller constantly exhibited a harsh tone and had a very aggressive style. Many people at Smith
commented that Miller always seemed to have a “chip on his shoulder” and seemed to enjoy
antagonizing others. Miller typically began his statements and E-mails by using condescending
phrases, such as “in my humble opinion.” Members of the group openly stated that they dreaded
FRANK MILLER AS A CHANGE AGENT
Chapter 11 quotes Woodrow Wilson as saying, “If you want to make enemies, tell people they
have to change.” This statement could not be any closer to the truth. From day one Miller told
everyone in the Smith organization that they needed to change. In Miller’s view, anyone that had
an opinion contrary to his must be wrong and therefore needed to be changed.