4. Out-group members do not receive the respect they deserve from others
a. Duty of ethical leaders to treat each member with respect
III. Listening to Out-groups in Practice
A. Listen to out-group members
2. Out-group members may feel powerless, alienated or discriminated
against
4. Listening requires concentration, open-mindedness and tolerance
6. When people feel listened to they feel confirmed and more connected to
the larger group
B. Show empathy to out-group members
1. Restatement: “I hear you saying…”
3. Reflection: “So you are feeling…”
4. Support: “I’m impressed with…”
C. Recognize the unique contributions of out-group members
1. Expectancy theory: First step in motivating others is to let them know
they are competent to do their tasks
3. Leaders need to let out-group members know that what they do matter
and is important to the larger group
D. Help out-group members feel included
1. Wm. Schutz (1966): People have a strong need to feel included in
groups
3. Leader needs to be sensitive to out-group members’ needs and respond
in ways that show they are part of the larger group
E. Create a special relationship with out-group members
1. Leader-Member Exchange Theory: Leaders should create a special
relationship with each follower
3. Special relationships can develop when a leader challenges out-group
members to be engaged
4. Out-group member feels validated and more connected to group
F. Give out-group members a voice and empower them to act
1. Lets out-group members be on equal footing with other members
2. Empowering others allows out-group members to be more involved, and
responsible for their actions.