49–9A. A QUESTION OF ETHICS: Gifts
(a) The three elements of a gift are the donor’s intent to make it, the donor’s (or agent’s)
delivery of it, and the donee’s acceptance of it. Broadly applying those requirements, the trial court held
that “the passing of the ring was a completed gift on the transfer of the ring to” Campbell. The court
stated that as soon as Campbell received the ring and accepted it, it became a “final” gift and “nothing
else that happens thereafter changes it. I think that engagement rings are gifts.”
On appeal, Crippen argued that the transfer of the engagement ring was a conditional gift, given
in contemplation of marriage. He asserted that, in the case of a conditional gift, “if and when the
condition, i.e., the marriage, does not occur, the gift fails and the donor is entitled to the return of the
ring.”
The appellate court reversed the trial court’s judgment, however, and ordered Campbell to
return the ring to Crippen. The appellate court recognized that “the clear weight of authority in this
country is contrary to the trial court’s ruling in this case. . . . In our society, an engagement ring—i.e., a
gift incidental to an engagement—is the symbol and token of a couple’s agreement to marry. As such,
marriage is an implied condition of the transfer of title to the ring and, thus, the gift does not become
absolute until the marriage occurs. Put another way, marriage is a condition precedent before
ownership of an engagement ring vests in the donee.”
The donor’s intent “is precisely what is at issue here. Whether or not a gift [is] unconditional is a
question of intent. . . . If the donor does not intend to make a completed and irrevocable gift—if,
instead, he intends to make a conditional gift—then a conditional gift it is.” The court cited examples of
other conditional gifts: a church member’s gift of money to a church conditioned on the church’s
continued existence; an organization’s gift of money to a university for the construction of a dormitory
conditioned on the dormitory being named “Confederate Memorial Hall”; a decedent’s bequest of real
property to his caretaker conditioned on her continued performance of care-taking duties; a father’s gift
of a car to his daughter purportedly conditioned on various criteria of good behavior; and a man’s gift of
money to a woman conditioned on his failure to return from his travels.
(b) In the Crippen case, the appellate pointed out that “there are cases holding that a donee
is entitled to retain an engagement ring when the donor is responsible for the failed engagement.” Here,
however, the court “decline[d] to follow these cases because we believe the rule adopted by us is more
in keeping with the essence of what occurs, and what is contemplated, at the time of an engagement. If
and when that which the parties contemplated—the marriage—does not occur, the engagement ring