Social Networks
LO 14.10 How are family and friends important to young adults?
Creating a partnership may be the most central task of the stage of intimacy, but it is certainly not the only
reflection of that basic process. In early adult life, each of us creates a social network made up of family
and friends, as well as our life partner.
Family
Parents remain significant parts of the young adult’s life. Most young adults are in contact with their
parents at least once a month. Not surprisingly, the amount and kind of contact an adult has with kin is
Discussion Launcher (Learning Objective 14.10, p. 364)
List all the people in your current social network. What is the relative importance of family and friends
for you?
Friends
Friends can be important members of a social network. Friends are chosen as partners are chosen, from
among those we see as like ourselves in education, social class, interests, family background, or family
Discussion Launcher (Learning Objective 14.10, p. 364)
What might be the result of a young adult having few, if any, friends?
Sex Differences in Relationship Styles
As in childhood, there are very striking sex differences in both the number and quality of friendships in
the social network. Women have more close friends, and their friendships are more intimate, with more
self-disclosure and more exchange of emotional support. Young men’s friendships, like those of boys