B. Productive Conflict
1. Stages of Team Development
a. Forming—groups are polite and impersonal as they test the waters.
b. Storming—conflict appears and members engage in infighting and often
clash with the leader.
c. Norming—the group develops procedures for organizing, giving
feedback, and confronting issues.
d. Performing—members carry out the duties of the group.
e. Adjourning—group completes its work, resolves issues, and ends.
2. Handling Conflict
a. Flight occurs when you choose not to engage or deal with a conflict.
b. Fight is another alternative requiring individuals to engage in some type
of confrontation.
C. The Unite Approach
1. Unite requires team members to stop stating positions and start exploring
issues.
a. A position is a demand that includes a person’s solution to the problem.
b. Interests are the needs and concerns underlying each position.
2. Raise the Issue
a. Preparation includes many of the elements we have already discussed,
such as considering the meeting environment, meeting participants, and
meeting topic.
b. State the issue concisely and in a neutral tone.
3. Invite Cooperation
a. Emphasize that the unite approach requires effective listening and
participation from all team members.
b. Incorporate the round robin technique: going around the circle and
allowing everyone to share his or her perceptions of the issue.
VII. KEYS to Excellence in Team Communication
A. Know Yourself
1. Do a self-inventory of how you have interacted with others in the past and how
your team members reacted to your communication.
B. Evaluate the Professional Context
1. Identify what is considered professional communication and what is not.
C. Your Communication Interactions
1. Be critical of your communication while talking with your team members.
D. Step Back and Reflect
1. Take a reflexive inventory of your communication with other team members.