8 Chapter 2: Improving Personal and Organizational Communications
ADDITIONAL APPLICATION EXERCISES
1. “He did not say she sent the text message.” Repeat this sentence aloud eight times, each time
putting the emphasis on a different word. How does the varied emphasis change the meaning of
the sentence?
Note to the Instructor: Have eight different individuals read the sentence in class. Start with the
emphasis on the first word: “He did not say she sent the text message”; then the second word: “He
did not say she sent the text message”; then the third word: “He did not say she sent the text
message”; and so on.
After each reading, briefly discuss with the class the change, if any, in the meaning of the
sentence. This exercise should demonstrate the potential for communication breakdown when
only written communication is available.
2. Read a story or simply talk into a videotape recorder. Then play back the tape and consider how
you could speak more clearly or vary your voice tone or inflections to make your speech more
easily understood or more interesting to listen to.
Note to the Instructor: You may want to set up various business situations that students are likely
to encounter on the job, preferably situations that involve phone use. They may need to handle an
angry customer, a request for service, or their boss’s need for information. Record the students’
voices and play back the conversations, again analyzing how the students can alter their tone or
inflections to convey the best impression.
3. Introduction to Learning Blocks. The purpose of this role play is to help students learn how to
recapture the attention of someone who is not being a good listener. Introduce students to the
problem of listening “blocks” and discuss the information below. For the first activity, ask one
class member to play the role of job interviewer and ask another person to play the role of job
applicant. Prepare the interviewer to assume the role of someone who is preoccupied and
displaying several listening blocks. Encourage the job applicant to use various methods to
improve communication. For the second activity, you will ask one student to respond to each of
the three complaint situations and solicit feedback from the rest of the class.
a. Throughout life there are situations where we desperately want another person to listen
carefully to what we say. For example, suppose you have a personal problem and seek
advice from a friend. As you discuss your problem, it becomes obvious that your friend is
preoccupied and not listening closely to what you are saying. Another example might be a
job interview situation. Just as you begin discussing some of your major strengths, it
becomes clear that the interviewer is not paying attention. When faced with this
communication problem, you need to do something. Because barriers or “blocks” to
listening interfere with communication, you need to take appropriate action when these
barriers surface during a conversation. A few typical blocks follow:
• Mental holiday: The person is daydreaming or focused on thoughts that have nothing to
do with the current conversation.
• Judging: The person is focused on your clothing, tone of voice, posture, or hair style
and is ignoring the conversation.
• Rehearsing: The person is busy thinking about how to respond to your comments and is
ignoring what you are currently saying.
If the person seems only slightly distracted, try making eye contact, varying your speech
pattern, or asking questions. If the person seems completely preoccupied, you may want to
reschedule the meeting.