128 Instructor’s Manual for Leadership: Theory, Application, Skill Development, 6e
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2. Initiating Conflict Resolution. You and your coworker, Chris, clean up the work area, which is divided in two
sections, about once a week. The machine section is always dirtier and takes more work and time to clean. It
seems as though Chris always makes sure you get the machine section to clean, which you don’t think is fair.
Solution
Step 1. Plan a BCF statement that maintains ownership of the problem.
Step 2. Present your BCF statement and agree on the conflict.
3. Initiating Conflict Resolution. Your roommate, Chris, is home earlier than you are so you eat your own food
at different times. Every night for the past week, Chris has not cleaned up. Dirty dishes are left in the sink and
pots are left on the stove. You have to clean the pots before you can cook. You don’t think it’s fair to have to
clean up before you can cook.
Solution
Step 1. Plan a BCF statement that maintains ownership of the problem.
Step 2. Present your BCF statement and agree on the conflict.
Feedback Form
Try to have positive coaching improvement feedback comments for each step in initiating conflict resolution.
Remember to be specific and descriptive, and for all improvements to have an alternative positive behavior (APB).
(For example: “If you would have said/done…, it would have improved the conflict resolution by…”).
Collaborative Conflict Resolution Model Steps
Step 1. Plan a BCF statement that maintains ownership of the problem. (Did the initiator have a well-planned,
Step 2. Present your BCF statement and agree on the conflict. (Did the initiator present the BCF statement
Step 3. Ask for, and/or give, alternative conflict resolutions. (Who suggested alternative solutions? Was it done
Step 4. Make an agreement for change. (Was there an agreement for change?)
BEHAVIOR MODEL VIDEO 6.4
Mediating Conflict Resolution
This video is a follow-up to Behavior Model Video 6.3. Alex and Catherine have not resolved their conflict so their
manager, Peter, brings them together to resolve it.
This video does not serve as a behavior model for any skill-building exercise. However, it can be shown as part of
Skill-Development Exercise 4, as shown above with the exercise’s recommended time.