106 Instructor’s Manual for Leadership: Theory, Application, Skill Development, 6e
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2. Conflict Can Be Dysfunctional or Functional
When conflict prevents the achievement of organizational objectives, it is negative or dysfunctional
conflict.
B. Conflict Management Styles (Slide 6-28 holds Exhibit 6.4)
LO 6-7. Define the five conflict management styles.
(1) The avoiding conflict style user attempts to passively ignore the conflict rather than resolve it. (2) The
accommodating conflict style user attempts to resolve the conflict by passively giving in to the other party.
(3) The forcing conflict style user attempts to resolve the conflict by using aggressive behavior to get his or
her own way. (4) The negotiating conflict style user attempts to resolve the conflict through assertive, give-
and-take concessions. (5) The collaborating conflict style user assertively attempts to jointly resolve the
conflict with the best solution agreeable to all parties.
When you are in conflict, you have five conflict management styles to choose from.
The five styles are based on two dimensions of concern: concern for others’ needs and concern for your own
needs.
These concerns result in three types of behavior:
A low concern for your own needs and a high concern for others’ needs results in passive behavior.
A high concern for your own needs and a low concern for others’ needs results in aggressive behavior.
A moderate or high concern for your own needs and others’ needs results in assertive behavior.
Each conflict style behavior results in a different combination of win-lose situations.
The five styles, along with concern for needs and win-lose combinations, are present in Exhibit 6.4 and
discussed below in order of passive, aggressive, and assertive behavior.
1. Avoiding Conflict Style (Slide 6-29)
The avoiding conflict style user attempts to passively ignore the conflict rather than resolve it.
When you avoid a conflict, you are being unassertive and uncooperative.
A lose-lose situation is created because the conflict is not resolved.
a. Advantages and Disadvantages of the Avoiding Conflict Style
The advantage of the avoiding style is that it may maintain relationships that would be hurt through
conflict resolution. The disadvantage of this style is that conflicts do not get resolved.
b. Appropriate Use of the Avoiding Conflict Style
The avoiding style is appropriate to use when: (1) the conflict is trivial; (2) your stake in the issue is
not high; (3) confrontation will damage an important relationship; (4) you don’t have time to resolve
the conflict; or (5) emotions are high.
2. Accommodating Conflict Style (Slide 6-30)
The accommodating conflict style user attempts to resolve the conflict by passively giving in to the other
party.
When you use the accommodating style, you are being unassertive but cooperative. You attempt to satisfy
the other party, neglecting your own needs by letting others get their own way.
A win-lose situation is created, as you try to please everyone.