100 Instructor’s Manual for Leadership: Theory, Application, Skill Development, 6e
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A recent survey found the number one thing lacking in new college grads is listening skills.
1. The Message-Receiving Process
LO 6-2. List and explain the three parts of the message-receiving process.
The three parts of the message-receiving process are listening, analyzing, and checking understanding.
Listening is the process of giving the speaker your undivided attention. Analyzing is the process of
thinking about, decoding, and evaluating the message. Checking understanding is the process of giving
feedback.
The message-receiving process includes listening, analyzing, and checking understanding.
2. Listening
Listening is the process of giving a speaker your undivided attention. As the speaker sends the message,
you should listen by:
Paying attention. When people interrupt, stop what you are doing and give them your complete
attention.
Avoiding distractions. Keep your eye on the speaker. If you are in a noisy or distracting place, suggest
moving to a quiet spot.
Staying tuned in. Do not let your mind wander to personal topics. Do not think about what you are
going to say in reply; just listen.
Not assuming and interrupting. Do not assume you know what the speaker is going to say, or listen to
the beginning and jump to conclusions. Listen to the entire message without interrupting the speaker.
Watching nonverbal cues. People sometimes say one thing and mean something else. So watch as you
listen to be sure that the speaker’s eyes, body, and face are sending the same message as the verbal
message.
Asking questions. When you feel there is something missing, contradictory, or you just do not
understand, ask direct questions to get the person to explain the idea more fully.
Taking notes. Part of listening is writing important things down so you can remember them later, and
document them when necessary.
Conveying meaning. The way to let the speaker know you are listening to the message is to use verbal
cues, such as, “you feel…,” “uh huh,” “I see,” and “I understand.” You should also use nonverbal
communication to indicate you are interested and listening.
3. Analyzing
Analyzing is the process of thinking about, decoding, and evaluating the message. As the speaker sends the
message, you should analyze by:
Thinking. Listen actively by organizing, summarizing, reviewing, interpreting, and critiquing often.
Waiting to evaluate until after listening. When people try to listen and evaluate what is said at the
same time, they tend to miss part or all of the message. You should just listen to the entire message,
then come to your conclusions.
4. Checking Understanding
Checking understanding is the process of giving feedback. After you have listened to the message, check
your understanding of the message by:
Paraphrasing. Begin speaking by giving feedback, using paraphrasing to repeat the message to the
sender. When you can paraphrase the message correctly, you convey that you have listened and
understood the other person.