For this activity, students must come prepared so be sure to introduce it at least one class period
prior to discussion. The chapter emphasizes the role of family in establishing values. This
activity is designed to highlight the role that family (both past and present) have on the
development of individual and cultural values.
• Prior to the activity, students should be given the assignment of talking to older
siblings, parents, grandparents, etc., about what they considered to be the most
important values they were taught when they were growing up.
– Students should ask them to identify the top three most important values
– Students should ask them whether the values taught by their family were
shared by the larger culture of the time
– Students should ask how the values of the culture have changed, and what
the top three values would be today
• Students should answer the same questions for themselves
– What are the top three values they learned growing up
– How did they relate to the values of the culture at the time
– What are their top three values today
– How do they relate to the cultural values today
With these materials in hand, break students into small groups to discuss the similarities and
differences they identified. Each group should create a list of values that were similar across
generations as well as across students. These would reflect “sustained” cultural values. In
addition, students should create a list of values that have changed across generations.
After the students have had a chance to discuss their own values as well as the values identified
by parent, grandparent, older sibling, etc., create a “Master list” of past and present
commonalities. Encourage students to think about why these values are sustained while others
were discarded. For those values that changed, what happened in the families and cultures that
might have influenced that change?
SUPPLEMENTAL FILMS AND VIDEOS
Café au Lait (1994, 94 minutes)
This film is a high-spirited, frank comedy about race, romance, and family in Paris. Lola, an 18-
year-old West Indian woman announces her pregnancy to her two lovers: Felix, who is a white,
Jewish bike messenger enamored by African American hip-hop; and Jamal, who is a black law
student from a wealthy diplomatic family. Beyond an unsanitized view of race relations, the film
presents a unique family situation and nicely points out that in confrontation begins the discovery
of a common humanity.
Choosing Children (1984, 45 minutes)
This film explores the issues confronting lesbian mothers. Through interviews with mothers and
their children, the film speaks about possibilities for parenting and about the importance of
understanding different ways of living together.