• Do these deep structures reflect the ones we read about in the textbook? Which
deep structures were we not able to find examples for? Which deep structures
might we need to add to the textbook?
• What reasons are commonly used to judge another culture’s practices, beliefs,
and/or values? Are these reasons based on a culture’s deep structures? Which
ones?
Activity 3-2: Mom and Dad, Guess what . . .
This activity offers insight into how familial attitudes toward nontraditional marriages have a
profound impact on the success of our romantic relationships and how those attitudes have
changed in the last three decades. The goals of this exercise are threefold. First, it allows students
to consider how their parents might react to news that they are about to marry someone with a
disability, of a different religion, or of a different race or ethnicity, or make a commitment to a
partner of the same sex. Second, this exercise allows students to think about how they might
react as a parent to their own child’s news of a nontraditional marriage. Finally, this exercise
offers valuable insight into students’ own attitudes with regard to intimate relationships and
family structures.
Divide the class into pairs with each student taking turns role playing two scenarios four times
each. In both scenarios, one student role plays the child who has come home to talk to his/her
parent/s, role played by the other student, about marrying someone the parent/s may or may not
approve of. In the first scenario, the student role playing the parent/s responds to the child’s news
as the student’s own parents might respond. In the second scenario, the student role playing the
parent/s responds the way the student might respond to his/her own child’s news.
Scenario #1
The child has come home to tell his/her parent/s that s/he is getting married or entering into a
committed relationship. The student role paying the child should think about how s/he would
present the news that s/he is marrying/entering a committed relationship with someone who 1)
has a disability, 2) practices a different religion, 3) is of a different race or ethnicity, and 4) is of
the same sex. The student role playing the parent/s should imagine about how his/her own
parent/s would respond to the news in each of the four cases. Students should then role play each
of the four situations, trading places now and then so that each student has a chance to represent
the attitudes of his/her parent/s.
Scenario #2
As before, the child has come home to tell his/her parent/s that s/he is getting married to/entering
into a committed relationship with someone who (1) has a disability, (2) practices a different
religion, (3) is of a different race or ethnicity, and (4) is of the same sex. This time, however, the
student role playing the parent/s should respond to the child’s news using the value and belief
systems that reflect the student’s own thinking. As before, students should role play each of the