miscommunication and misunderstanding can result in strained interpersonal relationships and
how we can come to better understand others through interpersonal interaction.
• What happened when you saw this behavior?
• Where did it occur?
• How did you interpret the behavior at the time and how do you interpret it now?
• What effect did your unfamiliarity have on the interaction?
• What were your perceptions of the person engaging in the specific behavior?
• How could you have alleviated the confusion surrounding the unfamiliar
behavior?
• How might unfamiliarity with and confusion about another person’s way of
communicating hinder the development of interpersonal relationships?
• How can we familiarize ourselves with unfamiliar cultural ways of behaving and
communicating?
Activity 2-2: Then and now
This activity illustrates the changing nature of a society. Divide the class into groups of 4-5
students. Have each group generate a list of objects, ideas, products, slogans, norms, and values
that they or their parents encountered in the 1950s, 60s, and 70s. Have each group then generate
a similar list for the 1980s and 1990s. Ask students to draw parallels between the two lists: What
has changed? What is no longer evident in today’s society? Why have these changes occurred?
How have these changes impacted people’s lives? Students should discuss how these changes
have affected relations between people from different ethnic, sexual orientation, gender,
religious, and socioeconomic backgrounds. Ask students to make some predictions about the first
decade of the 21st century: What’s ahead for U.S. culture? An open classroom discussion can
follow with each group reporting its results to the class. The instructor or another student should
use the chalkboard to record all of the answers.
Activity 2-3: Women and men in the workplace
This activity asks students to analyze a case study that illustrates the changing attitudes toward
women that have taken place in the U.S. Divide students into groups of four to five, have them
read the case study and answer the questions that follow. A large class discussion should follow
with different interpretations of the case study recorded on the chalkboard.
Bill is a man in his late fifties and the founder of a two-person investment company. He has run
this company for twenty years and is well respected in the field. Helen has been Bill’s secretary
for the last ten years, and the two get along very well. Helen is also in her early fifties and began
working outside of the home after her last child finished high school. Bill often refers to Helen as
“dear” and his “catch–all girl,” since the small size of the company necessitates Helen doing a
wide variety of tasks. For example, Helen is expected to make Bill’s coffee in the morning and
run personal errands for him during office hours. Helen enjoys doing these things and considers