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6. When making decisions regarding resources in your organization, make sure
to consider how the resources are being distributed (and who’s impacted), the
fairness of the decision, along with whether your actions demonstrate that you
respect those involved.
Career OBjectives
Why won’t he take my advice?
This exercise contributes to:
Learning Objectives: Describe the three key elements of motivation; Demonstrate the differences among
self-efficacy theory, reinforcement theory, equity theory, and expectancy theory
Learning Outcome: Describe the major theories of motivation and relate them to organizational
performance
AACSB: Diverse and multicultural work environment; Reflective thinking
The new guy in the office is nice enough, but he’s straight out of college, and I have 20
years of experience in the field. I’d like to help him out, but he won’t take it, no matter
how I approach him. Is there anything I can do to motivate him to accept my advice? He
badly needs a few pointers. —James
Dear James:
It’s great that you want to help, and surely you have wisdom to offer. But let’s start with
this: When is the last time you took someone else’s advice? Chances are it’s easier for
you to remember the last time you didn’t take someone’s advice than when you did.
That’s because we want success on our own terms, and we don’t like the idea that a ready
answer was out there all along (and we missed it). “When somebody says, ‘You should
do something,’ the subtext is: ‘You’re an idiot for not already doing it,’” said psychologist
Alan Goldberg. “Nobody takes advice under those conditions.” So under what conditions
do people take advice?
There are two parts to the motivation equation for advice: what your coworker wants to
hear, and how you can approach him. For the first part, keep this rule in mind: He wants
to hear that whatever decisions he’s made are brilliant. If he hears anything different from
that, he’s likely to tune you out or keep talking until you come over to his side.
For the second part, your coworker’s motivation to accept and, more importantly, act on
advice has a lot to do with how you approach him. Are you likely to “impart your wisdom
to the younger generation?” Anything like “I wish I had known this when I was just
starting out like you” advice will likely have him thinking you (and your advice) are out
of date. Are you going to give “If I were you, I would do this” advice? He may resent
your intrusion. According to research, what is most likely to work is a gentle suggestion,
phrased as a request. Ravi Dhar, a director at Yale, said, “Interrogatives have less
reactance and may be more effective.” You might say, for instance, “Would you consider
trying out this idea?”