D. Stage III: Intentions
1. Intentions are decisions to act in a given way.
a. Why are intentions separated out as a distinct stage? Merely one party attributing
the wrong intentions to the other escalates a lot of conflicts.
b. One author’s effort to identify the primary conflict-handling intentions,
represented in Exhibit 14-2, is along two dimensions:
i. Cooperativeness—the degree to which one party attempts to satisfy the other
party’s concerns.
ii. Assertiveness—the degree to which one party attempts to satisfy his or her
own concerns.
2. Five conflict-handling intentions can be identified: competing, collaborating,
avoiding, accommodating, and compromising.
a. Competing
i. When one person seeks to satisfy his or her own interests, regardless of the
impact on the other parties to the conflict.
b. Collaborating
i. When the parties to conflict each desire to fully satisfy the concerns of all
parties. The intention is to solve the problem by clarifying differences rather
than by accommodating.
c. Avoiding
i. A person may recognize that a conflict exists and want to withdraw from or
suppress it.
d. Accommodating
i. When one party seeks to appease an opponent, that party is willing to be
self-sacrificing.
e. Compromising
i. When each party to the conflict seeks to give up something, sharing occurs,
resulting in a compromised outcome. There is no clear winner or loser, and the
solution provides incomplete satisfaction of both parties’ concerns.
E. Stage IV: Behavior
1. Stage IV is where conflicts become visible. The behavior stage includes the
statements, actions, and reactions made by the conflicting parties. These conflict
behaviors are usually overt attempts to implement each party’s intentions.
(Exhibit 14-4)
2. Stage IV is a dynamic process of interaction; conflicts exist somewhere along a
continuum.
3. At the lower part of the continuum, conflicts are characterized by subtle, indirect,
and highly controlled forms of tension.
4. Conflict intensities escalate as they move upward along the continuum until they
become highly destructive.
a. Collaboration may be especially effective for tasks that require innovation, but
can lead to mistrust and conflict when groups are splintered into smaller groups of
two or three based on task. Individuals who have been assigned power tend to
have a more difficult time using collaborative strategies.
5. If a conflict is dysfunctional, what can the parties do to de-escalate it? Or,
conversely, what options exist if conflict is too low and needs to be increased?