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Additional Considerations in Presenting Part II
1. Inform students that they may feel some anxiety in keeping the conversation on topics
their customers want to discuss, and that there will be the unconscious tendency for them
to use probing questions to shift the conversation to topics in which they are interested.
This puts them on topics with which they feel safe and secure (Maslow); however, it will
probably cost them the attention and relationship they want from their customer. Remind
them that Mike Crandall apparently was not commenting on things in which his customer
was interested. Instruct students to pleasantly acknowledge each of the topics their
customer shares. If they do not, their customer is instructed to quit sharing.
2. Instruct students that they can share their benefit statement/proof device any time after
they begin talking about those topics in which their customer is interested. However, it
will be important (when they take their test after the role-play) that they have discussed
three of the five topics their customer wants to share. Remind them to take notes, or they
will not be able to remember all of the shared information.
3. Discuss the importance of the skills developed in this role-play as they relate to
interviewing for a job or meeting people in a business or social setting.
4. In each of the two role-plays, pair salespeople with different customers. This provides
students with the need to work with different communication styles and will help to
emphasize the importance of communication style flexibility. However, it is important
that in all three role-plays a student stays in the account category assigned. If the numbers
in your class are not even, either you can assume the role of a customer, you can ask a
fellow professor or a student from another class to be a customer, or you can organize a
team of three.
5. Ask students to think of a close friendship. Have them suggest things that occur in the
relationship that make and keep it a strong relationship. Raise the questions about
whether they talk about things in which their friend is interested. Do they acknowledge
and give support? Do they give compliments; search for additional topics of mutual