Scenario #1
Response: Problem Inquiry and Empathy (acknowledge feelings)
What Joe might say or do: Joe would most likely engage in problem inquiry, asking
Situation #2
Response: Empathy (acknowledge feelings) and Descriptive
What Joe might say or do: Joe can express to Tina that he understands Tina’s concerns
about the disciplinary actions. He might say something like: “I can appreciate that you are
concerned about this. If I were experiencing what you are, I would also be concerned. This
Situation #3
Response: Empathy (acknowledge feelings)
What Joe might say or do: Unless Joe needs more information regarding Tina’s situation,
Situation #4
Response: Descriptive and, if need be, more Absolute than Conditional
What Joe might say or do: Joe must simply inform Tina of the discipline problems and
why he cannot honor her request to remove the discipline. Again, he must avoid judgmental