Chapter 07 – Management and Leadership
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The Political Manager
He has an unerring ability to know what will make him look good. He will go to bat for you only
on issues that serve his political agenda. He’s sneaky and plays favorites. He won’t think twice about us-
ing you as a sacrificial lamb to support his own career goals.
Support his high need for recognition by making him look good on strategic projects. Focus your
own efforts on “high-value” work. Be prepared to share the limelight, even if it kills you. Don’t trust him
to have your own interests at heart. Pitch him on work you want to do by emphasizing its profile and im-
portance to senior management.
The Obsessive Micromanager
She trusts you the way you’d trust a five-year-old behind the wheel of the car. No matter how
much detail you give her, or how many times you redo a piece of work, it’s still not right. You’re com-
pletely demotivated and have lost your sense of competence. Why is she so untrusting? Is she anxious
about failing to please her boss, or is she simply a control freak? If the problem is her own insecurity, an-
ticipate issues that will make her anxious by reassuring her that you have covered all the bases. Say, for
example, “in completing this I spoke to Jane Doe and took the following issues into account. . . .” Write it
down as well, as she may be too anxious to fully process what you are saying.
The Invisible Manager
You have no one to go to for direction. She doesn’t have a clue about the volume or pace of your
work. You’re killing yourself, but no one notices or gives you feedback. This manager shares many of the
underlying motivations of the weak manager. She may be invisible because she’s too busy, or is a reluc-
tant or unskilled manager. If she is pressed for time, do your homework before you meet with her to make
the meeting as efficient as possible. Give yourself direction and feedback by setting milestones and regu-
larly evaluating your effectiveness against them. Establish a mechanism for getting direction, whether it
be weekly or monthly meetings at an agreed time. Hold her to her commitment.
The Task Master
He doesn’t have a life and doesn’t expect you to either. You’re drowning in work, but he keeps
heaping on more. His timelines are ridiculous. Sometimes an extremely task-focused manager is simply
shy or preoccupied or so focused on getting the work done that he’s not aware of the impact of his behav-
ior on the people around him. Is he aware of your workload? If you’ve talked to him and he still doesn’t
get it, create your own standards for evaluating what is realistic and doable. Don’t be apologetic about
wanting time for a personal life. Work–life balance is your right, not a privilege. If your organization
wants to “be an employer of choice,” remind your boss of the incongruity between policy and behavior.
The Nasty Manager
She’s ruthless. She seems to take pleasure in watching you squirm. She has pets, and you are not
one of them. Sometimes an apparently nasty boss is simply so task-focused that she is oblivious to how
her behavior makes you feel. Underneath a gruff exterior, as the saying goes, may be the heart of a pussy-
cat. When you confront her, does she apologize or get mad?
Regardless of what type of boss you have, your first line of defense is to speak to him, as he may
not be aware of his behavior. Don’t make sweeping generalizations about his personality. Rather talk to
the specific behavior in question and tell him how it makes you feel. You can soften your comments and
avoid defensiveness by allowing your boss to save face. Introduce your statements with “You may not be
aware . . .” or “You may not realize . . .” or “You may not intend. . . .”
If none of these strategies work, you have two choices. If you have good personal reasons for
staying in your job—you love your work, you’re learning a lot, you like the people you’re working
with—you can hold your nose and ignore your boss as best you can. Or, you can quit: Use the experience
to learn and then move on.i