Appendix C to IM Chapter 5
This exercise was in the 8e Chapter 6, which has been combined with Ch 5. If you are an
adopter of the text, you have permission to copy and use this exercise.
S K I L L – B U I L D I N G E X E R C I S E A – 3 (Not in the Textbook)
Nonverbal Communication and Listening
Preparation (Group)
During class you will be given the opportunity to practice using effective nonverbal
communication and listening skills. This will be done while you are getting
acquainted with someone whom you do not know, or do not know well.
In preparation, make sure you have read Chapters 5 and have completed
Self-Assessment Exercise 5–1. Review the feedback sheet below, which you will be
using during the exercise to analyze how well you used the text material.
Feedback on Nonverbal Communication and Listening Skills
You and your partner will discuss the feedback areas below. After the discussion, using
feedback from your partner, rate yourself by putting an X in the blank next to the word(s)
that best describes the communication you used during the discussion.
Nonverbal Communication:
Facial expressions
1. I _____ smiled _____frowned.
2. I ____did ____ did not use eye contact effectively. It was _____ too frequent _____ about
right _____ not frequent enough.
3. My facial expressions conveyed:
Vocal quality
4. My pitch was _____high _____ about right _____ low.
5. My volume was _____loud _____ about right _____ soft.
6. My pace was _____fast _____ about right _____ slow.
7. My pauses and silence were _____ too frequent _____ about right _____ too infrequent.
8. I _____ did _____ did not use repetitive words like “Um,” “Ah,” “Y’know.”
9. Tone, the attitude in my voice, was:
10. I _____ did _____ did not vary my vocal qualities enough.
Gestures
11. List gestures that you used and indicate whether they were used too frequently.