d. taking work-related vacations to couple professional commitments with recreation.
Joe, age 13, has been acting out since his mother moved her boyfriend into the house a
few months ago. Marge is angry with his reaction since she has been divorced for five
years and thinks that she has a right to a life of her own. Joe has indicated that he feels
misplaced by her boyfriend and wants to live with his father. Marge and Joe came to the
counseling center to deal with her frustration and guilt regarding the situation. It would
be best to start with which of the following?
a. Talk to the mother about her selfishness concerning meeting her own needs at the
expense of her son’s feelings.
b. Confront Joe about his acting-out behavior and ask what he might do to make the
situation with his mother healthier.
c. Act as a mediator, giving each of them a chance to share their thoughts, and seeking
empathy from both sides so a decision can be made for the benefit of all concerned.
d. Self-disclose an experience in which you had to make a decision that produced
frustration and guilt.
If you had a client who appeared to work very hard at getting you to push him or her
away, what would be the most therapeutic way of dealing with this situation?
a. Explore with the client how this behavior could be serving him or her.