Strokes of genius from the blue
66. It important to remember that when someone gives you criticism, they are probably wanting to
__________.
test your emotional intelligence
make themselves feel important
67. ___________ refers to understanding and relating to another’s feelings.
68. Lavern and Donald are coworkers on a large branding campaign. While the project is on track,
Lavern feels that she is doing all of the work and that Donald is treating her like a second-class
citizen. Lavern comes to you and says “Donald is a complete jerk and he really needs to get
fired!” Which of the following is an appropriate empathetic response for you to offer her?
“You got that right. . . . I cannot stand that guy!”
“So it seems you have a problem with Donald. Is there something else going on?”
“You seem to resent that Donald was hired for the project. Who did you want
hired?”
“You resent Donald for not doing his share of the work; is this what you mean?”
69. Sadie is mentally paraphrasing what her professor is saying about the next assignment and
creating mental summaries of each part of the assignment as he continues to talk. However,
she’s being careful not to come to any conclusions about the assignment, such as how hard it
might be, until she’s heard everything he has to say. Sadie is currently engaged in the process of
__________ as she receives the message her professor is sending.