17. The overarching goals of EFT are straightforward and focused, providing couple
therapists with consistent direction during what is often a tumultuous adventure. Which
of the following is NOT a goal of EFT?
a. Decrease expression of attachment needs.
b. Create secure attachment for both partners.
c. Develop new interaction patterns that nurture and support each partner.
d. Increase direct expression of emotions.
18. In therapy, a therapist says, “On the surface, you look angry and sure of yourself when
you are arguing with him. Inside, something very different seems like it might be going
on. Inside, it seems you feel more like a sad and lonely little girl who isn’t too sure of
herself … sure if she is good enough or worthy of his love. Is that what is going on
here?” What intervention might the therapist be doing?
a. Empathetic conjecture and interpretation
b. Evocative responding: reflections and questions
c. Tracking interaction patterns and cycles
d. Reflecting primary and secondary emotions
19. When an EFT therapist is heightening in therapy, what is he or she doing?
a. Highlighting key emotions
b. Encouraging key emotions
c. Discouraging key emotions
d. Enacting key emotions
20. Softening of emotions in EFT is used to create emotional bonding, change interactional
positions, and redefine the relationship as safe and connected. How is this accomplished
with couples in therapy?
a. A previously blaming, critical partner asks a newly accessible partner to meet
his/her attachment needs and longings from a position of emotional vulnerability.
b. The more critical partner softens his/her stance and words, allowing the more
vulnerable or anxious partner to reduce emotional reactivity and defensiveness.
c. Partners learn to express their underlying attachment-based fears, including hurt
and disappointment, when discussing conflict areas.
d. All of the above.