Appropriate confrontation
7. Asking the client permission to share your ideas with him or her allows the clinician to:
Make sure the client takes responsibility for actions
Offer advice while still remaining in charge of the client’s situation
Offer advice while still leaving the client in charge of his situation
Set an example of courtesy for the client
Asking Permission to Share Ideas
8. At times, the clinician must advocate for the client by confronting others who may be interfering with the clinician’s
ability to interact effectively with the client. The clinician’s message in this case must be:
A request for advice or suggestion
One in which a display of anger is justified
Advocacy: Confronting Collaterals
9. In order to make an I-message effective, the clinician should:
Suggest a solution while also asking the client for a solution
Avoid asking the client how he or she sees the situation
Be confident that he or she is privy to all the information and avoid searching for extenuating circumstances
Follow an observation that supports the client’s point of view with “but” or “however” in order to add an
opposing opinion
Asking Permission to Share Ideas
10. “I feel that talking about your husband’s sudden death with your relatives will be very helpful” is an example of:
The clinician offering useful advice
The clinician being overbearing
11. Name one of the 5 reasons outlined in the book for addressing discrepancies with a client.
12. What is one of the 4 parts in constructing an “I” messages when addressing difficult issues with a client?
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Using I-Messages to Initiate an Exchange of Views