CHAPTER 5: MEN’S LONG-TERM MATING STRATEGIES
Chapter Summary
There were many potential benefits to ancestral men who married. They would have increased their
chances of attracting a mate, especially a more desirable mate. By marrying, men would have increased
their certainty in paternity because they gained continuous or exclusive or predominant sexual access to
the woman. In the currency of fitness, men also would have benefited through the increased survival and
reproductive success of their children, accrued through paternal protection and investment.
Two adaptive problems loom large in men’s long-term mate selection decisions. The first is identifying
women of high fertility or reproductive value—women capable of successfully bearing children. A large
body of evidence suggests that men have evolved standards of attractiveness that embody cues to a
woman’s reproductive capacity. Signals of youth and health are central among these cues—clear skin, full
lips, small
lower jaw, symmetrical features, white teeth, absence of sores and lesions, facial femininity, facial
symmetry, facial averageness, and a small ratio of waist to hips. Standards of beauty linked to youth,
health, and fertility are consistent across cultures. Preferences for amount of body fat and WHR vary
predictably across cultures depending on relative food scarcity as well as the actual WHR distributions in
the local culture.
Male homosexual orientation has been called an evolutionary paradox because homosexuality is known to
be linked to dramatically reduced reproductive success. Of the leading evolutionary theories, the kin
altruism hypothesis has received mixed empirical support, whereas the female fertility hypothesis has
received the strongest empirical support.
Many contexts affect men’s long-term mating strategies. First, men who have what most women want,
such as power, status, and resources, are most able to successfully attract women that most men prefer.
Second, viewing attractive images of other women appears to lower men’s commitment to their regular
partner. Third, getting into a committed mating relationship causes a reduction in T levels in men, but
only if they are monogamously oriented and do not desire extra-pair sex. Fourth, interacting with
attractive women, and even their mere presence, increases men’s T levels as well as their behavioral risk
taking. Fifth, men’s mate preferences shift as a function of their “mating budget.” On limited mating
budgets, men place exceptional importance on the “necessities” such as an adequate level of physical
attractiveness. After these necessities are met, men pay more attention to “luxuries” such as creativity and
personality traits.