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1. DO NOT USE It is quite possible to have a wide range of relationships with coworkers, roommates,
and even family members without having much intimacy at all.
2. DO NOT USE Intimacy can come from intellectual sharing.
3. DO NOT USE Physical intimacy is obviously the best type of relational intimacy.
4. DO NOT USE By definition, an intimate relationship must exhibit all four intimacy dimensions.
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5. DO NOT USE Male-male relationships involve less disclosure than male-female relationships.
6. DO NOT USE Recent research has shown that men achieve intimacy through shared activities.
7. DO NOT USE Because men share less personal information and feelings than women, they are not
capable of achieving the type of intimate relationships that women have.
8. DO NOT USE Emotional expression is the only way to develop close relationships.
9. DO NOT USE Because cultures like Japan and Taiwan are collectivist, people there communicate
the same with members of “in–groups” and “out–groups” alike.
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10. DO NOT USE Some studies show that relational intimacy may develop more quickly through
computer-mediated communication than face-to-face.
11. DO NOT USE Focusing on having intimate communication daily will lead to extremely satisfying
relationships.
12. DO NOT USE One researcher concluded that close relationships “may be the single most
important source of life satisfaction and emotional well-being, across different ages and cultures.”
13. DO NOT USE Intimacy is closely linked to life satisfaction.
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14. DO NOT USE IM-ing, blogging, and Facebooking do not enhance intimacy in interpersonal
relationships.
15. DO NOT USE Managing your privacy settings on social network sites could have an impact on
intimacy in cyber-relationships.
16. DO NOT USE While workplace romances can be messy, some research has shown that 34
percent of people who said they dated a coworker ended up marrying that person.
17. DO NOT USE Commitment is only important in some types of interpersonal relationships.
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18. DO NOT USE Telling someone “You can count on me” will usually guarantee loyalty because it’s a
measure of surefire commitment.
19. Research shows that transgressors who have been forgiven are less likely to repeat their offenses
than those who have not received forgiveness.
20. Expressing regret can be more important in repairing a relational transgression than saying “I’m
sorry.”
21. Research suggests that the most effective conversations about forgiveness contain two
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elements—an explicit statement of your thoughts or feelings, and a discussion of the implications of
the transgression and the future of the relationship.
22. One type of communication that helps maintain relationships is evaluation.
23. Transgressions are always intentional.
24. The only benefit of forgiving a transgression is that the relationship might be repaired.
25. Dialectical tensions arise when a relationship is new and tend to disappear after the first two years.
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26. A person can be “too competent.” We are generally attracted to those who are talented yet have visible flaws like us.
27. According to Chapter Nine, we are usually attracted to people who are similar to us.
28. According to your text, we are more attracted to people who are good at what they do but admit their mistakes.
29. Differentiation in relationships is always negative, since it is part of the “coming apart” process.
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30. The initiating stage of interpersonal relationships is usually brief.
31. Attraction to others is greatest when we perceive we are similar to them in a high percentage of important areas, like
goals and beliefs.
32. Dialectical tensions exist in relationships when two incompatible forces or pressures exist at the same time.
33. It is impossible to like someone without being immediate with them.
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34. Immediacy only occurs through nonverbal behavior such as eye contact and facial expressions.
35. Metacommunication is communication about communication.
36. Affinity is defined as the degree to which people like or appreciate one another.
37. Verbal metacommunication is a necessary ingredient in successful relationships.
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38. Whereas affinity involves liking, respect involves esteem.
39. Liking or loving is a better predictor of relational satisfaction than respect.
40. All appropriate self-disclosure leads to liking.
41. The two key ingredients in successful self-disclosure are reciprocity and timing.
42. The move from initiating to experimenting occurs at the same pace for both those communicating in cyberspace and
face-to-face.
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43. The intensifying stage is the time when individuals give up some characteristics of their old selves and develop shared
identities.
44. It is possible for a business partnership to move to a bonding stage.
45. All relationships begin, progress, decline, and end in the same linear fashion based on Knapp’s developmental stages.
46. Some couples never experience distance in their relationship.
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47. One study found that the two least forgivable offenses of dating partners were sexual infidelity and unjustified
suspicion.
48. DO NOT USE Envisioning our family members represented in a mobile, with photos of each
member suspended by a thread and connected to bars containing images of other members, may
help us better understand the idea that
family communication is involuntary.
family communication is role-driven.
family communication is formative.
family communication patterns vary significantly.
49. DO NOT USE According to research studies, which family communication pattern produces more
productive and satisfying results?
No pattern is necessarily better than another.
both consensual and pluralistic
both protective and laissez-faire
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50. DO NOT USE When Marlina and Zach fight, they blow things out of proportion, interrupt each
other, and yell. Their conflict style is most likely
51. DO NOT USE The Greek word that describes the kind of affection long term couples or working
partners might feel is
52. DO NOT USE Which of the following is not true of friendship and social media?
Social networking sites are used to maintain current friendships and revive old ones.
Social media isn’t a replacement for face-to-face communication.
If you have too few Facebook friends, people might perceive you to be less friendly.
The more friends you have on Facebook…the better.
Social networking sites are used primarily to build new relationships.
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53. DO NOT USE Which of the following statements accurately describes the research about “friends
with benefits?”
Partners regularly check in with each other to discuss the status of their relationship.
Sex and friendships almost never mix well.
Neither partner has any fear of developing more serious feelings.
Neither partner has any fear that feelings will go unreciprocated.
These relationships are often problematic for the same reasons they are attractive.
54. DO NOT USE Social psychologist Roy Baumeister makes the case that, on average, most people
want ___________ close, important relationships in their lives at any given time.
55. DO NOT USE An intimate relationship
may only exhibit one or two dimensions.
may only exhibit one or two dimensions.
can be created through exchanging important feelings.
can come from exchanging ideas.
All of these answer are correct.