Chapter 08: Listening
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“You sound upset by this.”
“You sound worried and confused because you’re not sure if he’s coming on to you or not.”
“That’s a common problem these days. I can see why you’re upset, and I don’t blame you.”
45. Imagine you’ve been listening for some time to a friend talk about whether or not to drop out of school.
Which is the best helping paraphrase response?
“You’re confused because there are as many reasons to stay as there are to leave, right?”
“Which alternative sounds best to you?”
“When you’re this confused, it’s best to go with your heart.”
“You do sound mixed up. Maybe you ought to hold off making a decision for a while.”
“Tell me more. I think we can get to the bottom of this if we talk it out. I’m listening.”
46. You meet a friend at the supermarket and ask how he is doing. He replies, “I’m OK for the most part, just
stressed with all these finals.” Which of the following is the best helping paraphrase response?
“Yeah, I know what you mean.”
“So, you’re stressed, huh?”
“You’ll be fine; you always get good grades.”
“Bet you’re wishing you hadn’t taken 18 units, huh?”
“So, you’re managing most things just fine, but will be relieved when finals are over?”
47. When you try to reflect the underlying theme in a statement, you are engaging in