26. Raj is starting college. He is well-rounded and adults in his life have told him that if he tries hard enough, he can be
whatever he wants to be; however, doing some things, such as using his imagination and articulating his thoughts, comes
more naturally than doing others. He could be a doctor or lawyer or accountant, but being a writer or language arts teacher
could be a better choice because
a. his failures in science, law, or math would discourage him.
b. he will receive more support from language arts mentors.
c. he can reach his unique potential and build self-esteem by building on his strengths and dominant talents.
d. having to try hard at something does not build self-esteem.
27. Which of the following is an example of productive self-talk?
a. You will not eat chocolate today.
b. You are capable in your job responsibilities.
c. I will run ten miles tomorrow.
d. I won’t have a cigarette this afternoon.
28. People with low self-esteem tend to
a. ignore their weaknesses.
b. emphasize their weaknesses.
c. shrug off failures as no big deal.
d. see who they really are, but try to change.
29. Joshua usually ignores the little voice that says he should spend more time with his sick grandfather. He is
a. making a mistake.
b. aware of this weakness.
c. being driven by an internal locus of control.
d. not living consciously.
30. Which of the following is a good goal-setting principle?
a. Allow maximum flexibility and limit planning so that you will have several avenues to accomplish your goal.
b. Don’t focus on small successes, because you will lose sight of the end goal.
c. Spend time reflecting on the things you want to change in your life.
d. Keep your environment constant so that you can focus on your goal.
Case 4.1
Bill is concerned about Tim’s self-esteem. Tim’s attitudes about himself have begun affecting his work. Tim is just
consumed with the fear of failure. He keeps telling himself that he’s a failure, there’s no use trying, and he can’t do any
better. Bill says to Tim, “It’s good that you know what you can and can’t do; that helps you be more realistic about life.
You just need to think of these matters in positive terms rather than hating yourself.”
Bill manages Tim by telling him that he appreciates his hard work. Bill points out the things Tim does well and regularly
explains to Tim that he expects great things of him. After a few weeks, Tim begins to perform more effectively and his
fear of failure decreases. Bill further takes Tim “under his wing” and begins to advise him on professional behavior, gives
him time to explain ideas and his concerns, and even becomes an advocate for Tim with Bill’s boss.
31. Refer to Case 4.1. Rather than experiencing positive self-talk, Tim is listening to his
a. mentor.
b. internal locus of control.
c. inner critic.