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masculine avatar, they speaking style tends to become more masculine and when men were assigned a feminine avatar,
their speaking style becomes more feminine.
22. A generalization about an entire class of people based on some knowledge about some members of the class.
23. Conceiving of things as opposites; e.g. good or bad, right or wrong.
24. A cause of much misunderstanding between feminine and masculine communicators, feminine speakers tend to tell
stories in a way that includes a great deal of detail, the larger context of the situation, and increases the involvement of
people around them whereas masculine speakers tend to be linear, chronological, and to the point with their stories.
25. Short verbalizations or sounds (e.g. “yeah, umhmm”) typically used by members of the masculine speech community.
26. It sounds like Marcie has been socialized into a feminine speech community in which talk is used to gain and maintain
closeness. To Marcie, talking about the relationship is important. However, Lucas may favor a more masculine speech
style in which talk is used for more instrumental tasks, like making plans and making decisions. He may think there is no
reason to talk about the relationship if there are no problems. Like many people in masculine speech communities, Lucas
may see going to a basketball game together as a way to build closeness with Marcie. He may do things to show his
affection rather than saying things.
If Marcie were willing to recognize Lucas’ instrumental displays of affection as efforts at closeness, she may be more
satisfied in the relationship. However, she may also want to share her concerns with Lucas. If he understood that Marcie’s
desire to talk about the relationship stems from a desire for closeness, he may not see it as a red flag and be more willing
to talk.
27. Male-generic language is language that is supposed to include men and women but only uses male words, such as “he”
or “mankind.” Some people may think using inclusive language is not a big deal; however, research has shown that when
people hear or read male-generic language they think of men, not men and women. Male-generic language assumes that
men are the standard and the norm and devalues women and their experiences. Some people argue that using male-generic
language is more efficient (e.g., “he” is shorter than “he or she”); however, because male-generics (and not female) are
always the standard, it suggests that men are valued more.
28. Women typically are defined in terms of relationships and appearances whereas men typically are defined through
accomplishments and activities. Examples of this can be found in sportscasters who comment on women athletes’ hair,
weight, and clothing rather than their athletic abilities. It would be rare to hear similar comments about men; instead,
sportscasters generally reference men’s athletic abilities. Another example can be found in the ways politicians are
discussed. In the 2008 presidential election, a great deal of attention was paid to Hillary Clinton’s and Sarah Palin’s
appearance; male politicians were not subject to the same scrutiny. Other topics discussed by Wood include rape cases in
which judges commented on the alleged female victim’s appearance in rendering judgment; language for heterosexual
activity that implies men are the active parties whereas women are passive, etc.
29. Language reflects cultural values and is an influence on our perceptions. Many common terms for women frame them
as juvenile and immature (baby, girlie, etc)., equate them with food (dish, sweetie, etc.), or animals (chick, bitch).
Sexually active women are called sluts while sexually active men are called studs.
30. The textbook covers 5 common problems:
1. Showing Support: Masculine communicators tend to assume someone will talk about her or his problems if s/he
wants to, and don’t probe for information, while feminine communicators want to give and be given sympathy.
This may leave masculine people feeling intruded upon and feminine people feeling abandoned when someone
does not communicate with them in their preferred style.
2. Troubles Talk: People who are socialized into feminine speech communities tend to want and give support by
validating someone’s experience and being sympathetic. Feminine communicators often want (and try to be for
others) a shoulder to cry on. People socialized into masculine speech communities tend to want and give support