d. known
e. unknown
46. Nikki believes that she is lovable and that people are loving and can be trusted. Nikki has a(n) ____ attachment style.
a. secure
b. fearful
c. dismissive
d. anxious-ambivalent
e. none of these
47. Telling ourselves that we’re no good, we can’t do something, or there’s no point in trying to change is a hurtful form
of self-talk called:
a. self-sabotage.
b. identity scripting.
c. reflected appraisal.
d. self-disclosure.
e. social comparison.
48. Recall the story about Ramu (the wolf boy) that was discussed in Chapter 1. Was Ramu human or not? Explain your
answer in terms of how particular others and the generalized other affect human identity development.
49. Compare and contrast the four different areas of the Johari Window and illustrate each area with an example. In your
response, be sure to define each area.
50. What is the Self? How does culture affect the concept of when social identity begins?
51. Explain the concept of self-sabotage as a form of poisonous self-talk.
52. Discuss the influence of particular others and the generalized other in creating an individual’s sense of identity.
Incorporate concrete examples into your response.
53. Compare and contrast the four different styles of attachments and illustrate each style with an example. In your
response, be sure to define attachment styles and explain how they affect our lives as adults.
54. Discuss the role of parents in socializing children. Name three differences on how fathers and mothers differ in the
way they socialize with their children
55. Given what you know about the culture in which you grew up, speculate about what aspects of the generalized other
would be similar if you grew up in a different culture. What aspects of the generalized other do you think would be
different if you grew up in a different culture? Why? In defining the culture in which you grew up, consider the type of
family, region of the country, size of community, and religious affiliation as well as the race, class, gender, and sexual
preference/orientation mentioned in the text.