Hocker: Interpersonal Conflict, 9e TB-4 | 4
10. When Ken’s parents died, his sister was named as the executor of their estate. She gave all
of the “good” furniture to her kids and left only one old dresser for Ken’s kids. He was
furious with her, especially in this time of grief. Even though Ken felt “low power,” he
decided to maintain his relationship with his sister and encouraged his kids not to bring up
the issues with their cousins. Ken’s decision is an example of which of the following moves
Lerner suggests that people in low-power positions adopt:
a. Speak up and present a balanced picture of strengths as well as weaknesses.
b. Make clear what one’s beliefs, values, and priorities are, and maintain congruent
behaviors.
c. Stay emotionally connected to significant others even when things get intense.
d. State differences, and allow others to do the same.
e. All of the above
11. Which of the following is NOT an example of “metacommunication” used to balance power?
a. “Ok – so we have agreed that we will not bring up the issue of infidelity as we work
out this issue.”
b. “I am concerned that Sam is in a one-down position here since he has not been in the
company that long and people may not pay attention to his ideas.”
c. “You sure act like you are the most important person on the face of the planet.”
d. “When you call in your friends to testify on your behalf, I really feel like I have been
ganged up on.”
e. “If your pals Suzy and Sarah are going to be at the party I’d like to bring one of my
other friends too just to make sure I have someone to talk with.”
12. Which of the following is NOT likely to balance the power in a conflict?
a. Validating or acknowledging the other
b. Announcing all intended escalation
c. Asking the higher power person what they need
d. Expressing optimism
e. Using I statements
1. Differentiate between distributive and integrative power.
2. List, define, and provide examples of the RICE power currencies in interpersonal
relationships.