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of not feeling popular and not fitting in so they follow along with others and try to fit in. Many
teens resort to online bullying also known as cyber bullying. Some kids who don’t follow trends
often get made fun of online. They fear to say no since it can have several consequences such as
being a laughing stock among their fellow teens or just seen as not cool.
Saying no could make them feel embarrassed, rejected, and possibly even bullied. Out of
this powerful pressure, the teens find it extremely difficult to avoid drugs seeing their peers use
them. They don’t want to be seen as weak or unpopular. It’s at this stage where some teens say
“its just weed” or that “everyone else is doing it so it’s fine.” They will come up with all manners
of excuses to support their use of drugs and they will try everything to convince you into trying
drugs. It is also common for teens to throw parties where drugs are present majority of the time.
During the party scene, peer pressure can be at its greatest, whether its smoking cigarettes,
marijuana, or drinking alcohol. At this stage for a teen to host a party with his/her peers, there are
many opportunities to abuse drugs. They see people smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol and
other drugs as fun. Just alone, seeing all the drugs can be enough of an influence to start taking
drugs.
According to Chavannes, Barry, and White, most teens want to be treated as grown-ups.
Many teens go through this phase where they try to act like adults or want to be treated as adults.
It’s at the adolescence stage where teens feel they are mature enough and feel like they must be
recognized as adults. It’s at this stage where correcting them can get tough as you can hear them
tell their parents things like “I’m a grown up” or “don’t treat me like a child anymore.” Or
something similar like “dad don’t treat me as a kid anymore, I’m a grown-up now.” (Sussman et
al, 476) Teens during this age are going through a maturity phase but do not know how to handle
it or act the part. Many teens feel drugs give them a sense of maturity or age factor. At this stage,