a Survival Guide to pre-bankruptcy 3
pay for health insurance. at the same time, poor health compromises
earning ability, either because of disability or because of extended leave
during treatment.
• Divorceordeathofawage-earningspouseoftenreducesavailablehouse–
hold income by at least 50 percent, but usually only reduces expenses
by around 20 percent. if a family with a high amount of debt and/or
very little savings suffers a divorce or separation, financial problems,
including the outright loss of home and other important property, usu-
ally aren’t far behind. furthermore, these events—especially divorce—
can force someone into the workforce without adequate preparation or
skills. and if a spouse has died and did not have adequate life insurance,
even the cost of the funeral can send a family into financial turmoil.
• Addictions(includinggambling)canquicklyerodeyearsofsavingsand
even more quickly result in unemployment.
Sometimes, financial trouble is like the elephant in the room: it’s crowding
out everything else in your life, but it’s the last thing you want to talk about. you
don’t even want to admit that it exists. but you need to remember the old saying
about the way to eat an elephant: “one bite at a time.”
no matter how bad things are for you right now, don’t lose heart. you are
not your debt! Whether you got into financial trouble because of poor decisions
and bad financial management, or whether you were thrust into it because of cir-
cumstances beyond your control, your self-worth as
a person should not be measured by your past-due
balances or your lack of sufficient income. once
you know the various courses of action available to
you, you’ll be more able to focus on a plan for your
future rather than simply worrying about things
you seem helpless to do anything about.
is booklet will help you learn how to go from being a passive, avoidant
victim of debt to being a proactive, confident debt survivor.
and that is a great feeling.
You
are not
your
debt!