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1.1.2 Sources
We have learned that different people have different values. Still, there are some values that are
agreed by most, if not all, people. This is due to the fact that those values come from the same
sources. Values may come from:
• upbringing
• religion
• social norms
• experiences.
Upbringing
Most parents set rules for their children. Although the rules may not be written, family members
are expected to obey them. Usually, the check and balance for these rules are done through
punishment and reward. For instance, if you are caught lying, you will probably be scolded,
spanked, grounded and you may not even get your pocket money. Contrarily, you will be
rewarded by telling the truth, either with praises, hugs or gifts. Gradually, all these rules become
norms in your lives regardless of the presence of your parents.
Religion
Religion is also a source of values. All religions have moral instructions and promote values to
their believers. Muslims, for example, believe in life after death and the Day of Judgement, where
each individual is accountable for his or her actions in this world. As such the value of truthfulness
is one among the moral values that will be evaluated in terms of the salvation of the Muslims.
It is very important to note that religion is not only about formal system of individual worship but it
also teaches social relationships. A good example is the mandate that says “What you do not
want done to yourself, do not do to others” by Confucianism. This saying also exists in other
religions but phrased in slightly different wordings.
Social Norms
The environment in which we live also influences our values. For instance, due to the increasing
role of private property, individual rights and the impersonal nature of the market economy,
Westerners have become an open community, where they practice free speech and defend
individual rights to express ideas, practice their creed, and at the same time, be tolerant of the
rights of others.
On the contrary, Easterners are more reserved in their communication and attitude, and have a
comparatively more conservative lifestyle; sometimes to the point of being intolerant of diversity.
Experiences
Experiences are yet another important source of values. As we grow older, we meet more people
and we learn new things, and therefore, we enhance and widen our understanding of life.
Knowledge gained through reading and other modes also molds our values. Thus, we will and
should continue to obtain as much exposure as we can such that the experiences enable a
critical look at the values we are used to, whether local or foreign.
In a nutshell, values come from various sources and some of our values may change while others
are reinforced as we grow older, and as we gain more knowledge through our experiences and
exposure to other social norms. But moral values remain moral values as long as we are aware of
their role in achieving the ultimate goals or telos of our existence. Only the manifestation of the
norms representing the values may be altered.