Gonzales, Hardly Dare Section F Essay 1
I guess the most difficult think about being a woman that the other sex does not understand is
the think of being understood. In my own point of view, women are over thinker, we had a lot
of mixed emotions. One moment we feel extremely happy then out of nowhere, we will feel
like we are alone. When we got hurt and wanted to express something towards the other sex
they will never easily understand our point they just end up saying “too OA or too dramatic.”
Woman can’t easily hide their emotions while men are very good at it. Also, the perspective to
us girls is different from them that’s why arguments do happen. Little things that are easy to
solved but for them it isn’t. For which leads to misunderstanding. So I think, the most difficult
think of a woman that the other sex does not understand is the ability to be understood.
Overthinking of the things that are not under my control is one of the thing that I am always
battling with. Like seeing myself staring at ceiling crying every night for no reason and did jot
even know why I am not okay, something is missing or wrong and that feeling of a heavy heart
that leads me to not sleeping. That feeling that you are okay in front of other people but once I
am all alone and emptiness is striking at its best at me. Just want to rest but my mind is
stopping me from doing it.
I don’t know if I’m still there but been trying to and still fixing myself. But this things I’ve been
through I know that this all happens for a reason. God is saving me from all this emptiness and
loneliness that I cant even explain. Like every time I feel and tell my friends about what I’m
feeling they will always tell to pray and what’s amazing about it is God fill that void. So, I always
take advantage of all the pain to seek God. And also, with all those people who are supporting
me throughout this unknown journey of mine, I am slowly or maybe I’m already healed my self.
The ideas from the lecture that I find fascinating is that having a routine. Maybe that would help me for
the particular reason that I always allow myself to put all my time o overthinking things that are out of