A few years back myself and the old supervisor did not get along. We always seem to
butt heads on a lot of things. I always felt that she picked on me and would talk about
me behind my back. She felt the same, so there was always tension between us. Then
one day her and I sat outside for a good hour and talked it out. Before we talked it out it
went on for a couple of years, and we just avoided either other as much as possible.
After having a discussion we found out that “other people” gossiped and pinned us
against each other. She now works in another department and we get along much
better these days. We still have our moments but it’s much better than it was before we
talked about our issues.
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