Nowadays, more and more people want to live independently without parents since young.
They want to move out from parent’s house, especially when they get own job or have boy
or girl friends in the society. They need have more space and privacy which don’t want to
share with parents. In my home country – China, there is a serious problem between each
couple before getting married. Should we live with parents after marriage? Well, most of
them have different opinions. One of them is that women don’t want to live together
because they will have own family and child, and sometimes dealing with the
contradiction between mother and son’s wife always has difficulty. Another one is most of
men want to live with their parents because the Chinese filial piety since ancient times told
them the son of a family must live with parents who raise them grow up. Actually there are
both advantages and disadvantages of we live with parents or not. However, my view is
prefer to traditional Chinese filial piety. People should not live without parents after
marriage. So my research question is what differences of lifestyle if we live parents or not?
Moreover, there is a phenomenon in china is some people choose to send elders to the
nursing home if they get sick, illness or hard-moving. They don’t want to spend much of
time to take care of their aging parents day by day. I feel so disappointed according to this
phenomenon. So for my readers and audiences who are adults or ready for the marriage, I
want to tell them to support parents as much as possible. They gave your life and
everything they have. Without living with parents, you my can give them greater
environment and condition, but you don’t give them love and company.